(Closed) EEK! I just had my first wedding freak out.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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142 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hi date twin!

Hopefully she will get sick of that guy soon, he sounds super annoying. Don’t let her bring you down too much, and good luck with your planning!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I can totally relate. My FH and I each chose our best friend to stand with us but opted out of a traditional bridal party. I have not asked anything of my best friend (of 13 yrs) other than asking her to please come into town the morning before the wedding instead of the night before so we can take care of any last minute details and so I’d have someone to hang out with when FH is off with his best friend who will also be coming into town that morning. She responded by saying she couldn’t because her boyfriend’s schedule (who I have never met and really could care less about) wouldn’t allow them to make it in until 4am when my wedding starts at 11:30am. I voiced my opinion on that and it lead to a big falling out. At this point we haven’t talked in a couple weeks and I don’t expect her to make it. I’m a little sad but I’ve asked another friend to stand with me and at this point I realize she’s made her choices. I guess what I’m trying to say is if you’re okay with her not being around I’d go ahead and say something, just be aware that it will probably cause a breakdown of the friendship. Ultimately I think its important to have people in your life that don’t cause stress and that respect you unconditionally and it doesn’t sound like thats the case with her. Remember that if you don’t look out for yourself and your own best interests not many other people will. Good Luck in whatever choices you make.

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