Post # 1
I was addressing my STDS and once I got about half way through I realized I might have made a mistake. I addressed all the envelopes to John and Jane Doe instead of Mr. and Mrs. Doe (or Mr. and Mrs. John Doe, etc.). I am planning on using the formal names on the actual invites. I guess I was thinking that it was okay since Save-The-Date Cards are less formal, but now I feel like I’ve made a mistake. Is this a faux pas or am I having an unnecessary bridal freakout?
Post # 3
I dont believe its a big deal at all. I Actually labeled mine John & Jane Doe (on the invitations) simply because I didn’t want that much of a formality! lol (some do, some dont lol) But, even with the Save-The-Date Cards …. I don’t think its a big deal at all. Just make sure you change in them on your computer now so you don’t forget later. 🙂
Post # 4
i wouldn’t worry about it. most people throw envelopes away immediately after they open the letter anyway! you’re fine.
Post # 5
I dont think its a big deal. My dilemma I had with the Mr and Mrs when everyone had a differant partner so I just dropped it…
😀 Save the dates are informal anyway.. and I honestly never paid attention to how they addressed me as long as it had my name on it!
Post # 6
Ok, y’all are making me feel much better! I guess I just had a panicked moment (that never happens during wedding planning, right??) 🙂
Post # 7
Haha I did the same thing and didn’t realize it was a potential problem until reading this very post! So I hope it’s ok 🙂
Post # 8
At least you didn’t realize halfway through your next round of 50 STD postcards that you had been putting the stamp on the wrong side 🙂 Obviously my brain was not working that afternoon! I think you’re fine, though.. Save-The-Date Cards are informal so I don’t think it’s a big deal you did first names instead of Mr and Mrs! I’m sure your guests won’t think anything of it!
Post # 9
Nobody will notice 🙂 don’t worry
Post # 10
I wouldn’t worry about it.
Post # 11
I wouldn’t worry about it!