(Closed) Ekk – fiance briefly saw my dress on my ifone!

posted 7 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Do you think FH will remember that photo of my dress????
    Yes - I doubt he will forget it...i think the surprise is a bit soilt now : (5 votes)
    7 %
    No - Its a year to go...i really doubt that he will remember every detail of the dress : (64 votes)
    91 %
    Other please explain : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    5657 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Lol the same thing happened to me! My Fiance saw my dress for a split second as he walked by my computer.

    I doubt it’s “ruined” much. I didn’t have my hair done in the photo, nor was I wearing all my accessories. Not to mention it will be completely different seeing it in person than in a grainy picture!!

    Also, he only saw it for a specond, so I doubt he got much of a chance to absorb all the details anyway. I wouldn’t worry about it. When he sees you for the first time, it will still be an emotional moment for both of you!

    Post # 4
    891 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    My guess is that he will probably forget it, just go on, and he will. πŸ™‚

    Post # 6
    1088 posts
    Bumble bee

    He might remember the dress but who cares? πŸ™‚ on your wedding day you’re going to look so stunning to him, he’s not even going to think about the picture he saw on your phone plus you’ll be looking different than in the picture.. in my dress pictures my make up is very simple and my hair just down.. very different from when i’ll look on the day of plus i don’t have my veil or headpiece so if my Fiance were to see a pic of me in my dress I wouldn’t worry too much about it πŸ™‚

    Post # 7
    18643 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Even if it was a few weeks from the wedding, I doubt he would remember it.  Guys aren’t very good with little details, he probably just saw white dress.  Plus you will look completely different all gussied up so it wouldn’t even matter even if he could remember it!

    Post # 8
    126 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Don’t worry about it.  πŸ™‚  You’ll look completely different on your wedding day and it’s the moment that counts.  I don’t think guys really care about every detail on the dress anyway so he probably didn’t really take it all in.

    Post # 9
    1370 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    If it makes you feel any better, while we were doing our engagement photos the photographer asked me about my dress and without thinking I told her EVERYTHING and he was standing right next to me! Thank goodness I didn’t bust out a picture but I would have if I had had it on me.

    The worst of it is I didn’t even realize it until later when he was like uh… are you really wearing a black belt and I sat there and said “what?! How did you…. Oh, no.”

    I’m sure your Fiance won’t remember it! With more than a year to go and a small iphone picture he probably couldn’t pick it out of a lineup.


    Post # 10
    6473 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

    Even if he DID see it, it’ll look 100% different on the day when you’re all done up, accessorised, and GLOWING. Don’t fret!

    Post # 11
    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I agree, even if he DID see it, AND remembered every single detail, the LAST thing he’s going to be thinking as you walk down the aisle is, “Hmm….looks nice, but a tad more fitted than in that iphone pic I saw a year ago….” πŸ™‚

    Post # 13
    2158 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I know that if I sw a dress that briefly then I wouldn’t remember all the deteails a week frmo now let alone a year.  I think it’ll still be a surprise for him when he sees you

    Post # 14
    5118 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I agree with the PPs (and the 10 to 1 votes on the poll) that he won’t even remember his .5 second glance. Mr.ND’s seen my dress pics on my phone AND on my comp (sneaky, sneaky boy!) and I’m sure all he could tell you is that “it’s white…I think.” Hahaha.

    Your hair’s not done, your makeup isn’t applied, the dress isn’t fitted, nipped, and tucked. You will be beautiful on the big day, and he won’t be even thinking of that 2″x3″ image he glanced at for not even a second, he’ll be thinking of how gorgeous his wife is! πŸ™‚

    Post # 15
    518 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Your Fiance might be different than mine, but even if Fiance SAW me wearing my dress he wouldn’t remember it unless it for longer than a split second.

    My dress was hanging in its garment bag in my room one day when came over.  I trust him fully and I don’t think he wants to see it.  I stepped out of the room and heard him playing with zipper (zipping it up and down really fast) just to annoy me.  I decided that even if he did unzip the thing and see the dress, that it just looks like a big bag of tulle and sparkles.  I don’t think it’d ruin the wedding day look at all!

    I think its the same in your situation…if it was just for a split second its not a big deal.  Mosy guys aren’t about the details. I doubt he’s noticed that your dress is ball gown or sheath, white or ivory, lace or bedazzeled (or whatever you dress really is).  It sounds like your Fiance doesn’t want to see it ahead of time, so hide the photos and forget about it!

    Post # 16
    304 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    lolll who cares…he saw mine from pics too but not clearly… (:

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