Post # 1
I had pics on my ifone which i was going to delete (the pics are saved on my work computer so very safe from his eyes).
I obviously still the photo open so when you turned the phone on the first thing to pop up was the photo!
We were in the kitchen trying to work out how many prawns we would need on each skewwer for our dinner party…he grabbed my phone to get the calculator and EKK.
He said “hey, you shouldnt store your wedding dress photos on here”.
OH NO! But it was literally a second glance and he turned away. The sample is different to mine..it was heaps bigger (not fitted), thank goodness i didnt have a veil on so that is still a surprise and i dont think its a true refelection on what i will look like – PLUS we have a year or so to go!
Do you think he will remember that image? Has it been ruined????
P.S the phots are now deleted! I am such a fool!!!
Post # 3
Lol the same thing happened to me! My Fiance saw my dress for a split second as he walked by my computer.
I doubt it’s “ruined” much. I didn’t have my hair done in the photo, nor was I wearing all my accessories. Not to mention it will be completely different seeing it in person than in a grainy picture!!
Also, he only saw it for a specond, so I doubt he got much of a chance to absorb all the details anyway. I wouldn’t worry about it. When he sees you for the first time, it will still be an emotional moment for both of you!
Post # 4
My guess is that he will probably forget it, just go on, and he will. 🙂
Post # 5
Thank you!! Oh I feel so much better now!
I was very calm and quickly replied “oh thats a really old dress i tried on” and he instantly seemed to be more relaxed. If I had freaked out and replied “OH NO” etc he would have known that was the dress and probably remembered more of it…but i am glad I just reacted like I didnt care – so now he will probably wont think twice of it – hopefully!!!
Post # 6
He might remember the dress but who cares? 🙂 on your wedding day you’re going to look so stunning to him, he’s not even going to think about the picture he saw on your phone plus you’ll be looking different than in the picture.. in my dress pictures my make up is very simple and my hair just down.. very different from when i’ll look on the day of plus i don’t have my veil or headpiece so if my Fiance were to see a pic of me in my dress I wouldn’t worry too much about it 🙂
Post # 7
Even if it was a few weeks from the wedding, I doubt he would remember it. Guys aren’t very good with little details, he probably just saw white dress. Plus you will look completely different all gussied up so it wouldn’t even matter even if he could remember it!
Post # 8
Don’t worry about it. 🙂 You’ll look completely different on your wedding day and it’s the moment that counts. I don’t think guys really care about every detail on the dress anyway so he probably didn’t really take it all in.
Post # 9
If it makes you feel any better, while we were doing our engagement photos the photographer asked me about my dress and without thinking I told her EVERYTHING and he was standing right next to me! Thank goodness I didn’t bust out a picture but I would have if I had had it on me.
The worst of it is I didn’t even realize it until later when he was like uh… are you really wearing a black belt and I sat there and said “what?! How did you…. Oh, no.”
I’m sure your Fiance won’t remember it! With more than a year to go and a small iphone picture he probably couldn’t pick it out of a lineup.
Post # 10
- Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia
Even if he DID see it, it’ll look 100% different on the day when you’re all done up, accessorised, and GLOWING. Don’t fret!
Post # 11
I agree, even if he DID see it, AND remembered every single detail, the LAST thing he’s going to be thinking as you walk down the aisle is, “Hmm….looks nice, but a tad more fitted than in that iphone pic I saw a year ago….” 🙂
Post # 12
hehe thank you – yes you are all right (of course) and your posts make a lot of sense.
I feel much better now – phew! Thanks!!!
Post # 13
I know that if I sw a dress that briefly then I wouldn’t remember all the deteails a week frmo now let alone a year. I think it’ll still be a surprise for him when he sees you
Post # 14
I agree with the PPs (and the 10 to 1 votes on the poll) that he won’t even remember his .5 second glance. Mr.ND’s seen my dress pics on my phone AND on my comp (sneaky, sneaky boy!) and I’m sure all he could tell you is that “it’s white…I think.” Hahaha.
Your hair’s not done, your makeup isn’t applied, the dress isn’t fitted, nipped, and tucked. You will be beautiful on the big day, and he won’t be even thinking of that 2″x3″ image he glanced at for not even a second, he’ll be thinking of how gorgeous his wife is! 🙂
Post # 15
Your Fiance might be different than mine, but even if Fiance SAW me wearing my dress he wouldn’t remember it unless it for longer than a split second.
My dress was hanging in its garment bag in my room one day when came over. I trust him fully and I don’t think he wants to see it. I stepped out of the room and heard him playing with zipper (zipping it up and down really fast) just to annoy me. I decided that even if he did unzip the thing and see the dress, that it just looks like a big bag of tulle and sparkles. I don’t think it’d ruin the wedding day look at all!
I think its the same in your situation…if it was just for a split second its not a big deal. Mosy guys aren’t about the details. I doubt he’s noticed that your dress is ball gown or sheath, white or ivory, lace or bedazzeled (or whatever you dress really is). It sounds like your Fiance doesn’t want to see it ahead of time, so hide the photos and forget about it!
Post # 16
lolll who cares…he saw mine from pics too but not clearly… (: