(Closed) Elope, Vegas, or Traditional Wedding? PLEASE HELP!

posted 5 years ago in Venue
Post # 3
9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@shortie1848:  Eloping can be way less stressful than planning a wedding, especially if you keep it a secret until you’ve already eloped.

I did the big wedding for my first wedding so I dreaded going through the stress of wedding planning for my second wedding.  I really really really wanted to elope but my Fiance was adamant that he wanted a big wedding so we compromised and we are having a smallish wedding with 50 or so guests.

Every time I get bogged down or stessed out with wedding planning, I remind my Fiance it would have been easier if we had just eloped and paid for a fantastic honeymoon with the money we are spending on the wedding.

Post # 4
133 posts
Blushing bee

Elope!  Every big wedding sends the bride into a “I just wish this was over” mood.  If you elope you don’t have to worry about hurt feelings on who didn’t get invited, etc.  If you want the basics like a pretty dress, a bouquet, and photos you can still have those, but save a lot of money on the stuff that won’t matter soon after anyway.

Post # 5
202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@shortie1848:  There are definitely a lot of choices in between an expensive wedding and eloping!  There could be an amazing solution out there that you haven’t even considered yet. if you or your parents belong to a church or other religous organization a wedding ceremony can cost next to nothing and your family would still have the joy of sharing the day with you. Even if you elope you could still have a casual reception to celebrate w/ family and friends. i think its  important to consider how your parents and his parents feel about weddings and marriage and to possibly include them in this deciscion. That said, your and your finances feelings are the most important here, do what feels right and best of luck!

for me having a church ceremony w/ just family and a few of our closest friends was the best choice. I’d originally imagined a bigger more elaborate wedding, then when that started to look impossible Id really really wanted to elope but my parents and grandparents and future husband would have been too dissapointed so I found a third option and decided on something a little simpler and a little more modest than the dream wedding and im really really happy about it now (the wedding is coming up in a few months!). It’s going to be basic, simple and focused on tradition and family – and its at most half the price of the dream wedding.

I realized that there will be plenty of opportunities in my and my future husbands life together to host fabulous parties for all of our friends, but there will only be this one opportunity to share our commitment to one another with our families – that’s what helped me to feel really good about letting go of my “dream wedding”. Everyone’s experience and priorities are totally different and it can be really hard and really confusing but I’m sure that together the two of you will find the wedding/elopement that’s just the perfect fit 😉

Post # 6
2453 posts
Buzzing bee

@shortie1848:  I am starting to see the pointlessness of this big she-bang. I also see many brides on here wishing they had just eloped.

I would do vegas! They have some really nice, classy packages (I know everyone always think of the elvis themed wedding LOL) Especially at Mandalay Bay. So many different kinds to suit your budget and wedding party.

Post # 7
894 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@shortie1848:  I had a small civil ceremony in vegas with my family it was a lot more fun than my 300 guest wedding. That is all I can tell you. Dont forget to invite your parents though if you do decide to do vegas.

Post # 8
894 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@shortie1848:  We got married at the gazebo in the flamingo then we took a limo tour around the strip stopped at the las vegas sign for pictures and then we had a reception dinner at Mortons steak house with my parents and close family members and then we went clubbing with my cousins…best wedding ever.

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