Post # 1
so my “wedding” planning has turned into a disaster to the point where i am a bit BITTER regarding the whole situation. NO ONE ever tried to help me and my parents were never on board with having a wedding they kept telling me just go get married why do you want a big wedding blah blah.
im fed up!
Our anniversarys 10.25 and i want to get married i dont care how i just want to get married already
soo i told FI lets go to courthouse on that day and get married [its a thursday] just us, then we’ll have a nice dinner just us. and on Sunday we’ll get all dressed up ill wear my dress and we’ll have a photo shoot outdoors or at a studio.
i KNOW my parents will be mad but im just so tired of them not caring or supporting me in any decisions. They said why have a wedding?! THEN they wont mind NOT being a part of it.
any thoughts ?
Post # 4
If that’s what will make you happiest, do it!
Post # 5
- Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast
Do it if it is what you and your FI truly want to do. Don’t do it just to spite your parents.
Post # 6
We are eloping and haven’t regretted it yet. If its what you want, who cares what others think. if your parents dont want you to have a wedding than they can’t really be mad about you not having a wedding
Post # 7
When we got engaged I had everything planned but then things went downward and i never got back on track, im at the point where being married is the ONLY thing that matters now.
Most pictures ive seen of weddings are outdoors never in a studio.
would it be weird if we took pictures in a studio?
Post # 8
@Missus_LLC: Nahh, it’ll be fine. Photography goes through trends, is all. A few years ago, engagement photos were all in studios, now they’re outdoors, who knows what the trend will be next? Just get what will make you smile when you look back on them years from now.
Post # 9
i was thinking what if we get married at the studio?
Post # 10
Do what ever feels right to you. that’s how I’m (trying) to plan my wedding…just do what feels right. And hey, if in 10 years you regret not having the big ceremony, plenty of people renew their vows and basically have a wedding do-over!
Post # 12
We’re eloping at a botanical gardens and then taking pictures afterwards. Have you thought about hiring an officiant and photographer and just getting married at the beach or a park or to the side of a hiking trail? Something outdoors and beautiful?