(Closed) Emotional Bride-To Be

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

bring the fun back into it. Take a day off of wedding planning completely. Do something fun with you Fiance unrelated…like go for ice cream and talk about anything but the wedding. OR go mini golfing and just relax. (might be dumb ideas) , but that always helps me when im getting overwhelmed! You should also use your friends and their help. It really will be worth it, even if it is not the way you want it! Good Luck!

Post # 4
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608 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think a lot of people/brides go through that thought.  My only advice is when you feel that way to take a break.  Put the magazines, the blogs, the anxiety on the shelf for a week or even more.  I’ve taken huge breaks during the past year and its helped put everything into perspective so much.  Don’t stress yourself out, just set it down, it will be there when you get back

Post # 6
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112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@free0807: Oh no…that is totally me!!! I am getting married the day before you. I feel like a sad little emotional wreck! One minute I am overjoyed, the next I am angry, the next I want to cry. And I have no good reason. It’s horrible. My poor fiance has no idea what to do or say…All I can say is working out and “me” time is the only thing that helps me.

I try to remind myself that this is about the marriage not the wedding and to just enjoy this time. We will never get back these months/weeks/days. And I know that after the wedding, I will look back and ask myself what I was so worried about to begin with!

With all that said, I am sure that if someone looks at me funny or argues with me I just might break into tears LOL!! Good luck 🙂 I hope it makes you feel better to know that you are not the only one!!!

Post # 8
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220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’ve been through that!! It’s normal. My best advice is that is does pass, the planning is like a rollercoaster. Just keep going. You’ll feel excited again I promise. I’m super emotional some of the time too x

Post # 9
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95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@free0807:

Ditto! p.s. we are also date twins, and i’m also getting married in Brooklyn!!

I feel the same, i really can’t be bothered with it all now. i have this  nagging feeling constantly that i am forgetting something major. I probably should also take a few days off but there is so much to do!

Post # 10
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106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I feel the exact same way, don’t panic! Of course I can say this to you and not think it myself 🙂 I have had numerous meltdowns the last 2-3 weeks and I’m sure they will continue! Just know that you are not alone! I just keep telling myself that it will all get done, it has to, and whatever doesn’t wasn’t meant to be! Nobody will notice but us anyways! xoxo

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@free0807:Um… right now I want to do all that and I am annoyed with my DOC and don’t want to fly in to the wedding– but I know it will be worth it.

I went through a couple lulls in the planning, but this one I really want to give up.

It goes away. Hang in there!

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

congrats! One less thing to worry about – getting the dress altered!

We just started planning and we wish we could just go to City Hall. He and I both would do that and then forget all the other wedding crap. I don’t feel like fighting with family over what they want vs. whats’ best for us.

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