(Closed) Emotional, confused, and less than 2 weeks to go!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

Can you give us a little more background on what exactly your issues were with your MOH’s and what your email said?

Post # 4
5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

initial thoughts- seeing as you have so little time to go until your wedding, you are probably really emotional and frazzled to begin with (even without this Maid/Matron of Honor drama).  before you do anything, take another day or two to relax- try not to think about this AT ALL, and see where your head is at in the next few days.  i know when i am generally flustered and on edge to begin with, everything seems a million times worse than it is.  you don’t want to make a decision you will regret later.  maybe after a few days you will decide that you do in fact want her to step down, but if you give yourself a little time to breathe and put it out of your mind then at least you will know you have made the best, rational decision.  hugs!!! get yourself some tea, stat!

Post # 5
837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Okay so without background information here are my thoughts: If you’re mad at her because she isn’t fawning over you as the bride and throwing you bridal showers and parties, and isn’t interested in you’re wedding as much as you think she should be, then you need to get over it because she isn’t required to do that.  All she has to do is buy a dress and be at the wedding on time.  Now, if you’re upset and angry because she slept with you’re fiance, is dictating aspects of the wedding that are none of her business, you’ve discovered something about her that you morally disagree with, or something of that nature, then I see a problem.  And that is a FRIEND problem not a Bridesmaid or Best Man problem.  If this is the case, then set up a time to talk FACE-TO-FACE regardless of how busy she is (if you’re really friends she’ll find time) and work it out.  Good luck!

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