(Closed) Emotional – HATE my job and the distance between us

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Ugh-feel your pain. A year ago I was in a horrific job- came home and cried a lot. It put a lot of tension between me and Fiance. (Got a new job last June, was laid off from that one in November, but I am much better off being unemployed than in the first job!)

Journal writing helped me a lot. I took up yoga earlier this year- and that would have been a great help last year- I tend to keep tension with me (work drama would “follow” me home.)

I think the best thing you can do for yourself is try to keep your healthy- I know how a toxic work environment can hurt you physically. Good luck with your job search (and remember- this too shall pass!)

Post # 4
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@MrsTimmy:  I know that we had our differences on that other thread, and I don’t really have any advice for you now – but I sincerely hope that everything works out well for you! Having thousands of miles between you and the person you love most in the world is no easy thing, and that is why I made the choice that I did, in order to bring my Fiance here as soon as possible. I believe that everybody deserves to have what will make them happy, if they can obtain – and I hope you find what you’re looking for! 

Good luck! 

Post # 6
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@MrsTimmy:  It will have been a full year for me by the time I see my Fiance again, so I fully understand how you are feeling. At least you’ve got those two week breaks to look forward to though! For me, I find it easier being apart when I have something to count down to. Right now I don’t even have that, and it kind of sucks.

I know that you’ll find a job close to home eventually, and I hope it’s soon!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@MrsTimmy:  Hang in there!! It’s so hard but you’re doing what you need to do. At least you have a job even though it totally sucks.

Post # 8
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9672 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

((HUGS!))  I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this!  I don’t really have any advice except to say hang in there and it will be over soon.  And vent to us Bees any time you want, that’s what we’re here for.  I wish you all the best!!

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