(Closed) Emotional rollercoaster

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2607 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

You are close to the girl and her parents because you babsat for them, not just because of the relationship to your mom’s ex, so I would still plan on having her as your flower girl.  But, you have almost a year before your wedding, so I would just wait a few months and see how you and everyone else feel.  In a couple months, your mom’s feelings won’t be so raw, and you can probably discuss it with her if you feel the need for her input.

Post # 4
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48 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Your wedding day is about surrounding yourself with people who are important to you (and your FI). If you are close to the little girl and her family, then invite them. While your mom may be upset right now at this moment, the right conversations will eventually lead her to understand your reasonings why.

Family stuff can be a mess (I got to tell my divorcing parents that they don’t get to bring any dates), but ultimately you have to do what you feel is best for you. It is a concept I’m slowly learning to grasp, but you get to be selfish, if only for one day.

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