(Closed) Emotionally Sucker-Punched; Best Friend Issues

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@LoggerHead91207:  I think it’s nice that you want to apologize. You could send her a message by Facebook or an email and say how you feel and let her know that you don’t expect anything from her in return. If she wants to talk you after that, she will. If not, at least you’ll feel better for having said what you felt.

Post # 4
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Busy bee

I think you should go ahead and do it, send her a message. Say you miss her and everything you said here. Sometimes it takes taking the first step in order to have people in our lives. You never know, maybe she misses you too.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

My BFF and I went through a similar situation. Her fiance broke up with her and I tried to be supportive but it was months of her just refusing to let it go. I then found out that my mom had cancer and my own relationship failed and she accused me of being selfish and quit talking to me. It was a few months later when she called me in tears apologizing. We talked it out and were fine after that.

Fast forward a few years, I got into a relationship with this crazy controlling guy who brainwashed me or something and literally deleted her from my life without any explanation. I deleted her from facebook, blocked her emails and changed my phone number. When I finally pulled my head out my butt and got away from that guy, I called her and apologized and we ended up being just fine again.

My point is… If you miss her and you want to talk to her go for it. Everyone makes mistakes and good relationships, whether friendships or marriage or whatever, can overcome an awful lot.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

Let us know what happens. Life is too short to stay mad at each other. Hopefully she feels that way, too.

Post # 9
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Helper bee

That put a smile on my face!  Hope all goes well for you!

Post # 10
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Busy bee

That’s wonderful news! Best of luck.

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