(Closed) End a 10-year relationship with a wedding two months away?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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5095 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Call it off. Whatever you do, do NOT ignore those warning bells telling you that things aren’t right. It’s normal to feel some anxiety; it’s not normal for it to be joyless.

People always say that relationships take work. But they shouldn’t feel like work most of the time.

Post # 4
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Have you been feeling these things on a regular basis, or is it a new thing?  I think you would benefit from some counselling of your own to help you work through your feelings before you make any huge life decisions.

You mentioned family being over-involved and it sounds like your mother is overstepping a bit; perhaps even capitalizing of your fears of marrying your fiancee.

You need to be fair to your best friend and in order to do that, you need to get to the bottom of what you are REALLY feeling.

Good luck, I am sorry that you are going through this.

Post # 5
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

This is a duplicate post so I’m going to close it.  Please go here to comment.

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