Ending a friendship advice me

posted 2 years ago in 30 Something
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

Why have you been friends with her for two years??

Post # 3
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Busy bee

‘I feel like the past 6 months have been pure hell with her’

 

No, no, no. No friendship should feel like hell. 

You don’t need this shit. Say goodbye to this ‘friend’. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee

You definitely did the right thing!

Friendship is a two-way street and it sounds like she wants it to be very one sided. Don’t put yourself through that, it’s not worth it. After working such a long week and going to church afterwards, it’s understandable that you wouldn’t be up to a long drive to watch a late night film (I’m exhausted just thinking about it). A good friend should understand that, not cuss you out. 

I can understand the second guessing yourself too. When things are good, they can be great, but is it really worth the stress of not being what she deems a good friend?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

Your FRIEND makes your time feel “like hell”? I thought it was enemies who did that. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Yea… she’s not a friend. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

You made the right move. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

She is not a friend. I’m surprised you spoke to her for as long as you did. She sounds awful. She would be gone from my life without a second thought.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee

Cut the fat. I used to have terrible friends in my early 20s and one of the best things I ever did was ending those friendships. They caused me stress and unhappiness and who has time for that? You certainly don’t. Don’t even feel bad.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

happycomelately :  things might get really awkward at work, but you definitely made the right decision. People cannot go around cussing each other out and expect to have friends that is completely ridiculous.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

Unfriend her. Life is too short to put up with people like this. She is not a real friend.  Friends should be people you enjoy being around and you can have a good time with and they care about you.  As I got older, I had to drop friends that stressed me out and I had no desire to be around them anymore.  Too much drama.  Believe me, it’s for the best when you’re no longer in contact with them!

Post # 13
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Helper bee

Umm no, you need to end this asap. 

Post # 14
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Newbee

She’s a toxic friend.  “Friends” who give you this much stress should be cut out to save your sanity.  My life has been sooo much better once I walked away from toxic people!  

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