(Closed) Engaged 10 days ago- and now I’m 5 days late.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 77
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

WOW.. life does throw us curveballs!!! At least he proposed to you before you found out you were pregnant!!! That way, you know he wants to marry you for you and not just because you are having a baby together! Congratulations, babies are ALWAYS a blessing and the Lord knows what he is doing! This is one of those times where you have to change plans! Maybe you could move the wedding up within a few months and have a small, intimate ceremony that way you could still wear a beautiful wedding dress before your belly comes in.. hehe! Either way, even with a belly bump, I am sure you will still be a beautiful bride!

Think about it this way, if you had to have a baby now or never, which would you choose?

Good luck to you!!!! And I think you could still keep your original wedding plans since the baby will be 8 months by the wedding and you could loose baby weight by then. Finances would make it hard though. I say go for it now and tie the knot before the baby comes, it will def set a great example! and that way, you will have the baby within wedlock!!

Post # 78
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Congratulations! ๐Ÿ™‚ Remember, everything in life happens for a reason. Perhaps you were meant to be a mom now.

Post # 79
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Wow I just read your story and I’m going to second what PP’s have been saying: Congratulations!  An engagement, a baby, and a wedding on the way!  I believe everything does happen for a reason.  Maybe everything isn’t happening in your ideal order but just think of the big picture–at the end of this all, you’ll have a new husband and new baby.  I’m sure his daughters will be thrilled to know they’re going to be big sisters.  Best of luck with planning the wedding and preparing for your new little one.

Post # 80
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Congratulations!!!! Babies have a mind of their own of when they want to pop up! I know it’s not your ideal time but you will have a wonderful bundle of joy soon! Bump up the wedding if possible. If not, have your baby there when he/she is 8-9 months old! It will still be beautiful! Again, congratulations!!!!

Post # 82
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

When is it ever a ‘good’ time. This is a blessing …congratulations to you both ๐Ÿ™‚  I think this is a really lovely post.

Post # 83
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Congratulations! It may not be the way you imagined it, but it sounds like this has the makings of a wonderfully happy ending! Please keep us posted!

Post # 84
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Aw! Congratulations – I know it must be quite a surprise to you and might change your wedding plans around a bit but I’m really happy for you and your FI!

Post # 85
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Congratulations mama!

Post # 86
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Congratulations!

Post # 87
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Bumble bee

ohh congratulations! I know it wasn’t planned (but that is how most of us got here Smile). I am happy to read how supportive your new Fiance is towards you two having a baby…I think it’s really cute.  xoxo

 

Post # 88
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Congratulations! Many blessings come in disguise… ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 89
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Congrats! I know the timings a little off, but when is it ever right? There’s always a list of things that need to be done before A) getting engaged, B) getting married, C) having kids; theres no “perfect time”. You’re getting your life in order, engagement, marriage and kids!! All the best to you!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 90
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

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@Cupcakegurl:  I’m sure you are overwhelmed! I would be, too! But I truly believe everything happens for a reason ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 91
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

The fact that your birth control method was “pulling out during unsafe times of the month” is shocking to me…

Neither of those “methods” are proven to prevent pregnancy…I actually knew a woman who got pregnant without penetration (yes, it does happen)…..

 

Congrats, but in the future, if you do not want to get pregnant, I would suggest discussing birth control options with a  doctor or sexual health professional.

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