Engaged and not happy part 2

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
Post # 16
Member
532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

So, he’s proposed after you caught him cheating and you thought everything was going to magically be perfect? Yeah, that never happens.

You should dump him. Anything he does to you from now on is going to be because you’ve allowed it.

Post # 17
Member
8210 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I think you need to work on some self esteem bee. This is not cool and you deserve way better. 

GTFO and dont look back. 

Post # 18
Member
569 posts
Busy bee

The sooner you leave this guy the sooner you’ll feel better. Break it off for good, stay strong, move on.

Post # 19
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1084 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - -

Just because you’re used to it doesn’t mean that’s all there is. You’re kind of the only one to blame at this point for your unhappiness as you are STILL with someone who’s cheated a zillion times and doesn’t want anyone to know you’re engaged. You really need to get a grip and leave this fucker.

Post # 20
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11346 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

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lgarciab :  

Oh, for gawd’s sake, Bee.  Stop groveling to this awful guy, get yourself into therapy and figure out why you are willing to tolerate being treated like crap.

Post # 21
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1247 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

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lgarciab :  You already know what you need to do. Why don’t you just do it? It sounds mean but I don’t even feel bad for you bc you allowed this behavior.

Post # 22
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41 posts
Newbee

You needed to leave this guy like yesterday. Luckily it’s not too late to get your life back. He just adds stress and anxiety to your life. A healthy relationship doesn’t look like this. There are so many better guys out there. It’s time to drop this guy and make yourself available for a good relationship. As long as you’re wasting time with him, you aren’t looking for the right person to share your life with.

Post # 23
Member
4060 posts
Honey bee

I’m not trying to sound like a dick, but I’m pretty sure it’s a no brainer that you shouldn’t marry this guy. 

Post # 24
Member
497 posts
Helper bee

Just walk away from it, you’ll be better in time bee.

Post # 25
Member
4173 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - Canada

What is good about this relationship?? He makes you feel like you’re not good enough, he doesn’t make any effort, he lies, he cheats constantly… NO GUY is worth all this misery. Love isnt this hard! Your life doesnt have to be this difficult; you can be in love AND be happy. You can find a partner who values you and respects you. You just have to be willing to be single, work on your self-confidence and wait for the right person to come along. Ditch this loser bee, you can do SO much better. Even being ALONE would be 100X better than being with this douchebag.

Post # 26
Member
271 posts
Helper bee

Whats the real reason you wont leave? Are you afraid of him? Afraid of being alone? Kids?

you know what to do. Leave him and block his sorry ass.

Post # 27
Member
1217 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

You already know what you need to do. Be strong, bee, and leave.

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