Post # 16
So, he’s proposed after you caught him cheating and you thought everything was going to magically be perfect? Yeah, that never happens.
You should dump him. Anything he does to you from now on is going to be because you’ve allowed it.
Post # 17
I think you need to work on some self esteem bee. This is not cool and you deserve way better.
GTFO and dont look back.
Post # 18
The sooner you leave this guy the sooner you’ll feel better. Break it off for good, stay strong, move on.
Post # 19
Just because you’re used to it doesn’t mean that’s all there is. You’re kind of the only one to blame at this point for your unhappiness as you are STILL with someone who’s cheated a zillion times and doesn’t want anyone to know you’re engaged. You really need to get a grip and leave this fucker.
Post # 20
Oh, for gawd’s sake, Bee. Stop groveling to this awful guy, get yourself into therapy and figure out why you are willing to tolerate being treated like crap.
Post # 21
You already know what you need to do. Why don’t you just do it? It sounds mean but I don’t even feel bad for you bc you allowed this behavior.
Post # 22
You needed to leave this guy like yesterday. Luckily it’s not too late to get your life back. He just adds stress and anxiety to your life. A healthy relationship doesn’t look like this. There are so many better guys out there. It’s time to drop this guy and make yourself available for a good relationship. As long as you’re wasting time with him, you aren’t looking for the right person to share your life with.
Post # 23
I’m not trying to sound like a dick, but I’m pretty sure it’s a no brainer that you shouldn’t marry this guy.
Post # 24
Just walk away from it, you’ll be better in time bee.
Post # 25
- Wedding: November 2019 - Canada
What is good about this relationship?? He makes you feel like you’re not good enough, he doesn’t make any effort, he lies, he cheats constantly… NO GUY is worth all this misery. Love isnt this hard! Your life doesnt have to be this difficult; you can be in love AND be happy. You can find a partner who values you and respects you. You just have to be willing to be single, work on your self-confidence and wait for the right person to come along. Ditch this loser bee, you can do SO much better. Even being ALONE would be 100X better than being with this douchebag.
Post # 26
Whats the real reason you wont leave? Are you afraid of him? Afraid of being alone? Kids?
you know what to do. Leave him and block his sorry ass.
Post # 27
You already know what you need to do. Be strong, bee, and leave.
Post # 28
Thank you all so much for taking the time to respond to me. In my heart I know that I am so over with the situation. It is easy to say that I should leave him but the hardest part is actually doing it. Where and How do I start? He hasnt even texted me today at all since I droped him off to work this morning. Tried calling him and texting him but didnt get a response. However, he was online on Fb.
OMG! I am a wreck! 🙁
Post # 29
Maybe the real reason is I am scared. I am scared that I wont be able to find someone else. Im scared that, I will be single forever? Im scared to be alone. 🙁
Post # 30
That hit me right to the core 🙁 I dont know. I dont know why I am staying. I am scared? scared to be alone or scared to not be able to find another one and scared that to start over again. It has been 5 years. Maybe that is whats holding me back from breaking up. His family and my family are really tight and I am very close to his side of the family as well. Maybe another reason? But day by day I see how I dont matter to him.and it sucks 🙁