(Closed) Engaged but he said he is never going to legally marry me …

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 62
192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Leave, he’s never going to marry you. A man like this will never change I know because I have been there myself. The second a hand was raised I was gone and I’ve *never* looked back. You deserve someone that will give you a lifetime of opportunities not close every door in your face from the outset. 

Post # 63
176 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

OP, I have been there as well…my ex was like this, I left once and only once and never looked back. He promised me the world (money, marriage, kids, the works…) but I had to do what my heart told me to do…these things will never change the fact that he will hurt you again and again…leopards dont change their spots…


I hope you can find peace with your situation and leave. Hugs to you. 

Post # 65
502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Honestly, life is too short for this type of bullshit

Post # 66
223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I would leave the relationship, you want someone who wants to marry you as much as you want to marry them 

Post # 67
57 posts
Worker bee

You are this man’s pet.  I have been there before and quite honestly it really sucked.  He will never marry you, but he will gladly put a roof over your head and feed you.  He feels he can abuse you without any consequences for his actions, and he honestly will only see you as a piece of his property.  He will treat you as if you are not on his level.  As long as you are living with him and he has no plans to marry you – this man has everything he wants already.  He has nothing to gain at this point from marrying you.  He is being selfish because he is not taking your wants and wishes into account – only his own.  

Find a way out.  He isn’t with you because he loves you.  He is with you because he loves that you love HIM.

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