(Closed) Engaged for 4 years ? Upgrade or not?

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Lovely!!!!! Enjoy it!! Congrats 

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Don’t worry about them! I actually think its smart to upgrade before the wedding. That way the new set will be the one your actually taking your vows with! I could not upgrade my set until 3 years after we married and I felt I had to keep at least the wedding band for sentimentality reasons. Beautiful set BTW!!

Post # 4
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2246 posts
Buzzing bee

You can do whatever you like. There aren’t any rules about things like these; if that’s what you want to do, you can. 

Your family will get over it. Don’t pay them any mind. 

Post # 5
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1070 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Hey, if you love it and can afford it, why not! 🙂

Post # 6
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326 posts
Helper bee

It’s beautiful!! If both of you are ok with it and love it then just enjoy it and ignore what the others say!!

Post # 7
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143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

It’s beautiful, congrats! Ignore the naysayers 🙂

Post # 9
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193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2004

If it were me, I might be more tempted to use the money for the wedding…are you actually planning after 4 years or is a wedding not in your foreseeable future? But, it’s a lovely set!

Post # 11
Hostess
2650 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

FutureArchidiacono:  You know what would be a nice Idea, to echange the new upgreded “engagement ring” at the actual wedding. I say an upgrade is a nice thing to do since you can afford one now….I say go for it. 

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