(Closed) "Engaged" or just a ring?

posted 5 years ago in Engagement
Post # 31
30 posts
  • Wedding: July 2017

I don’t know what kind of issues your Fiance has with his family, but that sounds awfully unhealthy. I especially don’t get what’s so wrong with “blurting it out to the whole family”… So what if his brother can’t keep a secret? You two are ENGAGED, shouldn’t your Fiance be happy? Seems like he is more concerned with what his family might think or do than you or your feelings. Immature in my opinion. Definitely have a talk with the guy. 

Post # 32
229 posts
Helper bee

Don’t feel bad at all. One year is a good timetable. You did the right thing asking for what you want and standing up for yourself. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. I can’t tell you what to do but I almost married the wrong guy. I felt a little embarrassed to change my mind and felt weird to be single after investing so much time but I am so glad I called things off. I should have called things off sooner. Your bf should be excited and proud to be your fiancé. If he isn’t someone else will. You can’t waste your years being strung along by a guy who needs two years to marry you. In two years he might need more time and more time. Then what? Don’t give up on finding the man who really deserves you. 

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