(Closed) Engaged to a crazy man

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i only got a fraction of the way thru this but the first thing i thought was he sounds like a young & immature guy and you wouldnt be the first to accept less than what you deserve because you too were young and inexperienced

goodluck!

 

Post # 5
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1270 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

i am sure you deserve so much better. don’t ever, ever, EVER let yourself settle. and that’s all i have to say about that.

Post # 6
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1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Wow… you know, everyone makes mistakes. Learn from this and you’ll be a better, stronger person for it.

Post # 7
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476 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Girl, I get the he’s not even worth the energy you put into writting that post. It would be foolish to think it will get better. My advice = get out now. Best of luck.

Post # 8
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1398 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I don’t even understand, are you actually engaged to him? This man is a psycho I don’t even know why you’re pursuing a friendship.

Post # 9
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46416 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I hope you feel better for sharing all that.

Please ensure that you get some counselling so you don’t make the same mistakes in the future.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You absolutely dodged a bullet. This man is not relationship material, much less marriage material. He is toxic and you should completely clear him from your life. I’m glad you’re seeing a therapist, please heed her advice, and DONT EVER answer a text/email/fb message/call from him EVER. You will be so much better off.

Post # 13
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7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

This guy sounds immature and selfish, not to mention mentally unstable, abusive and controlling. I think its good that you stay far, far away from him. If I were you, I wouldnt call, text, facebook… nothing.

Hopefully, you are able to move past all this.

Post # 14
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14496 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Wow.  Ok, so let me get this straight.  You left Sam, and never looked back right??  Please tell me you did, that “relationship” that you had going on is insanity.  I know (not to be sexist and from personal experience) sometimes we, as women, want to know we can fix things and help people, but sometimes, they just can’t be help.  Get far away from this guy and I hope things work out for you and you find real happiness.

Post # 16
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1622 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Boy.  I had a “Sam” when I was younger and he really threw my life for a loop.  It took me a long time to get to a better place than he left me in, but now my life is wonderful and his life still sucks.  I hope it turns out that way for you too.  Suicidal manipulation, refusing to announce your exclusivity, emotional abuse – what reason is there to stay in a relationship like that?

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