Engaged to try out?

posted 10 months ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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119 posts
Blushing bee

Is there a reason you’ve been engaged 3 years with no wedding plans?

 

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

 

julesca :  so, I think the advice that people gave you a month ago on your situation is still relevant. From what you’ve said, I don’t know why you bother with this guy.

Post # 4
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Honey bee

Oh Honey, no.

You’re never getting married.

At least not to him.

Stop ignoring the red flags.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: Scotts ~ Walnut Creek

Based on your previous post this can’t be the only issue causing alarms to go off. As stated above I think the advice already given is still relevant.

There are billions of men on this earth. Once you let go of this loser it’ll be a lot easier to find one who actually wants to marry you. If thats still your goal. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

If he’s not even sure if he can live with you, why in the world did he propose? Also, being engaged for three years with absolutely NO wedding plans set or in sight is not okay in my book. You two are not young and inexperienced, you both are old enough to know what you want and how to make it happen ( I can assume since you both are divorced with grown children in the mix). Hell, I was 27 when I started dating my now Fiance’ and even then I knew I was not in it to waste time, luckily he felt the same way as we are only a few months apart in age.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

I’m the same age as you and I think being together 6 years and not living together yet is a big red flag.

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