(Closed) Engaged/Married Bee's – poll question!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: When did you know they were the "one"? When did you get engaged? Time before you got married?
    Love at first sight! Engaged after days/weeks! Married after weeks/months! SO IN LOVE! : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Love after a few weeks, engaged after a few months, married before a year of being together. : (15 votes)
    7 %
    Love after a few months, engaged after a year or so, married before two years of being together. : (52 votes)
    25 %
    Love after a few months, still not engaged an not in any rush. : (9 votes)
    4 %
    Love after a year or so, engaged several years later, still not sure of a wedding date! : (17 votes)
    8 %
    Other : (117 votes)
    55 %
  • Post # 76
    Member
    859 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    This poll doesn’t fit me (or probably a lot of people)

    We were “in love” within weeks, started to feel that “lifetime love” after a few months and got engaged after 3.5 years.

    Post # 77
    Member
    516 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2016 - Cambridge Mill

    justinsgirl2016:  Love after a few months, moved in and bought a house together after 1 year (a bit of a risk but it was worth it!), engaged on our 3 year dating anniversary.

    Post # 78
    Member
    301 posts
    Helper bee

    Love from first sight, kinda did the whole back and forth best friend thing for a year or so but he finally kissed me and told me he should have done that while ago:) dated for 2 years (knew we wanted to get married just didn’t know when). I became pregnant with our son so we kinda postponed the engagement/wedding because it wasn’t top priority at the time. He officially proposed with a ring when our son was born and we ate getting married January of 2017:)

    Post # 79
    Member
    62 posts
    Worker bee

    It took me longer than my Fiance to realize I loved him and wanted to marry him. But I attribute that to us being young ( 17). It wasn’t until about a year and a half in did I realize how far I had fallen for him and that I wanted to marry him. He laughed when I finally told him because he had been waiting for me to be ready for most of that time. ( yea he learned not to jump with me when he said I love you after 2 weeks ><) so we decided to hold out till we both graduated college now 6 years later we are engaged and planning a nerdy wedding. 

    Post # 80
    Member
    120 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    Love after a couple months, moved in together after 1 year, engaged just past 2 years and married at 3 years. It wasn’t “love at first sight”, it took me awhile to decide if I wanted to be with him. I’m generally cautious about getting into things. After about 6 months I KNEW he was the one though!

    Post # 81
    Member
    1709 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2016 - Garden

    I was going to pick the third one  but its slightly off. I didn’t have love at first sight ahha so eliminated the first one off the bat. It took me a while to start liking him. At first I thought be wanted one thing and that was to get in my pants since he was REALLY nice to everyone. But that was it he was just sweet and nice. No wanting to get in my pants or anything just really like me for who I was. I was very stubborn so I didn’t give him a chance to get close to me. I wanted only his help with my college homework and graduate and never see him again. Haha didn’t work that way.

    I ended liking him the second month of getting to know him. And we became BFFS. He liked me a lot but not in that way til a few weeks later. We didn’t tell each other’s feelings til the month of my graduation. Three months later. After that he asked me out. I said yes. We dated for two years and he asked me to marry him last month. So we’re planning to marry next year august.  :)) so it’ll be 3 years of knowing each other before we marry. :))

    Post # 82
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    2119 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    justinsgirl2016:  he told me since the first night that he loved me and wanted to marry me. I brushed it off cuz idk I was like u dont really know me lol. Took me months. But we wornt engaged till year 6.5. I had started to get impatient. Engaged for a year and half after that. But we have been happily married now for three years. Now we are ready for a little one 🙂

    Post # 83
    Member
    96 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    We were madly in love our first week of dating. Engaged after 2.5 years, and getting married in 4 months! 

    We talked about marriage and everything after being together for about 2 months. But I was still in high school. We moved in together right after I graduated. Then we both started college together, he’s 4 years older than me and was going back to college for a different degree, so I didn’t expect a proposal right away. 

    We got engaged in July of this year, and I was expecting it to be the Christmas before so there was about a 6 month time period where I felt like I was waiting around. 

    I don’t think I could be one of those who waits around 3+ years for a proposal. I feel like if it’s love you’ll know it before that long. 

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