(Closed) Engaged&planning a wedding/Getting Pregnant&Pregnancy-What is better?

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: What lived up to your expectations more?
    I loved planning a wedding, Everything I hoped it would be! : (5 votes)
    23 %
    I haven't enjoyed planning a wedding, it didn't happen how I imagined : (3 votes)
    14 %
    I loved TCC and getting pregnant it was more enjoyable than planning a wedding : (2 votes)
    9 %
    I didn't enjoy TCC and getting pregnant I prefered planning a wedding : (1 votes)
    5 %
    Loved them both as much : (1 votes)
    5 %
    Other- I'll tell you below : (0 votes)
    I'm not TCC yet but I suspect I'll have enjoyed planning my wedding more : (2 votes)
    9 %
    I'm not TCC yet but i suspect I'll enjoy that more than planning a wedding : (6 votes)
    27 %
    We don't want children so this doesn't apply to me : (2 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5657 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I loved planning my wedding, but I think going TTC, getting pregnant and having babies will be much more exciting!

    That said, a lot of the Bees here can tell you that TTC is not always fun.

    Post # 4
    Member
    14657 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I never really dreamed about planning a wedding and I kept it simple and did just as much as I had to in order to get what I wanted.  It wasnt bad or great.  TTC so far is sucking.  I’m totally impatient and not getting what I want right away and having it totally out of my control is fustrating.  I’m sure the pregancy wont actually be all that great either, but I just think that so I dont set myself up to think it’ll be great and actually turn out miserable.

    Post # 5
    Member
    13096 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I didn’t really love or hate planning a wedding.  I did find it stressful and, while there were fun aspects, I was certainly ready for it to be over with.

    I’m not TTC yet but I suspect I will enjoy being pregnant and preparing to welcome a son or daughter in mine and DH’s life will be much more enjoyable than planning a wedding.  There are certainly stresses that come along with it but it is so life-changing and something I’ve wanted for my entire life so I think the excitement will out-weigh the stress.

    Post # 6
    Member
    576 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Both were stressful and not as fun as I thought it would be, but being pregnant has been way better, more exciting and meaningful.  Even when we were engaged, we talked about our future children way more than we talked about our wedding.

    Before our wedding, I was excited to be married to my husband but I knew it wouldn’t really change anything.  We were already sharing a life and totally committed to each other, the wedding was just a way to show that to our family and friends.  The wedding itself was really simple and not a big deal to me.  Pregnancy hasn’t been all glowy and joyful, and preparing for a baby is way more work than I ever imagined, but there is so much more to look forward to.  I can’t wait to meet our daughter and get to know her personality and see how she resembles each of us. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    604 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014 - Narrawallee reserve/beach & Mollymook golf club

    I love planning our wedding, but find it tough sometimes to get a straight answer out of FH about final decisions. So far it’s coming together great with just under 11 months to go but I imagine I’ll be stressed to the max once the day gets closer (I’m a leave things to the last minute person…. Trying my hardest to avoid that in regards to the wedding!). As for TTC, well I’m sure FH will be MUCH more enthusiastic about that! I suspect that I will enjoy it just as much as planning our wedding, and hopefully I won’t stress so much!

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