(Closed) engagement might be over

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Keep your head up girl. I was in the exact same situation and i also postponed. I’m really happy to hear that your family is being supportive. Good luck!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

((hugs)) And gotta say that I’m proud of you for postponing… I can only imagine how difficult it must of been and the stress leading up to it. Definitely better to postpone now though than have issues later down the road.

Hope everything works out for the best.. for you and him. I pray that you two would both grow in this time and that you would have the wisdom, strength, and encouragement to do what you need to do in the days to come.

((hugs)) again 😉

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

((hugs)) i hope everything works for the best.

Post # 6
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23597 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

*HUGS*! 

Post # 7
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7689 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

It sounds like you made a very difficult but very important decision.  It’s better to not marry if you are not sure.  Best Wishes. 

Post # 8
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5183 posts
Bee Keeper

Wow it takes one he’ll of a woman to even admit this to yourself. You did the right thing, good for you

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am really proud of you for doing this. I can only imagine how upsetting this is and you are incredibly strong for doing this. Stay strong. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@eholland: I guess we have more in common than BIg Love 😉

i also often think my life would be/could be better as a single woman. But then i think about all the big things i want in my life and my SO pops up in my head and i couldn’t imagine anyone else being there. 

Do you have the ability to go away by yourself? Maybe a little relaxing vacation would do you good? Time to think and destress. I went to New Orleans by myself for 2 weeks and i came back never wanting to leave his side again! LOL. (lucky him 😉

 

 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@eholland: It sounds like you did the right thing for you.  It’s important to always “check yourself” and make sure you are truly happy.  You are taking the steps to do that.  I do feel bad for your fiance, but it’s better now than day of or after the wedding.  Be sensitive to him now as well, take everything slowly.  Best of luck to you

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