(Closed) Engagement Party – getting excited!!

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@napabridekelsey: Im having my party this Saturday I am kind of wondering the same thing as to how long they will stay.  I think for the most part if it is an afternoon party (mines at 2) people will stay just a couple hours.  As for gifts my sister the MOH did a collection from our entire bridal party for our Flutes and our cake Cutting set that me and Fiance picked out.  My Mother-In-Law and My mom asked about our Unity Sets and what we wanted so I picked that (were doing the Unity Sand) out as well and let them know.  Everyone else that have asked about gifts I told them gift cards to Michaels or Hobby Lobby for all of my DIY projects to come.  Have a great time!!!

Post # 4
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661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Dont expect a lot of gifts, but yes, people will still bring there.  It’s one of those things where people are unsure if they do or don’t, so some will just to be on the safe side. But, ya never expect them!

And really, its a time for people to come up and congratulate you both! They’ll be asking questions like “have you picked your dress?”  “what colors will it be?”  “Do you know the venue yet?”  All wedding related questions.

And also, expect to be center of attention.  Our engagement party happened so that the families could meet (after 7 yrs of living together, they had not met, believe it or not).  We had a separate party for our friends and family (but that was just an all-out shindig!)  Just expect to be busy – it will fly by very quickly; but you’ll love all the attention!  lol

Have fun!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

our engagement party will be just family so my family can meet his family! i cant wait!!! It is nex t month close to christmas when his family comes in town.

Post # 6
Hostess
16196 posts
Honey Beekeeper

People might bring you gifts, but that’s not to be expected. Is it more of a party or open house? People may come and go between the hours of 2:00 and 6:00, depending on how the invite was worded. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We had our engagement party about 2 weeks ago and unfortunately, we EXPECTED gifts and got none.  On the other hand we had LOTS of fun with our friends and family.  It was nothing too stuffy – food, drinks…LOTS of drinks, a DJ and partying all night!  I’ve attached some pictures.

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Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

wow it looks like you guys had a great time!!! my engagement party is next week and i am so excited!!!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@napabridekelsey:Fiance said we should have more engagement parties before the wedding! ๐Ÿ˜‰

This sounds like something my SO would say. Also, I love your dress!

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

We had our engagement party in October starting at 4:00 and with an open end time and about 90 people.  Most people came between 4 and 5 and stayed till like 7 or 8.  Some close friends ended up staying much later and helping us clean up and then to hang out some more.  I was not expecting any gifts but I think we got something from almost everyone (bottles of wine, picture frames, money, etc.).

It was overwhelming because I was never the center of a party like that before and I am glad I got to experience it before the wedding.  I had to mingle and talk to everyone that I barely got to eat anything!  It was an awesome time though and people are still saying that they had so much fun and they are looking forward to the wedding!

Have fun!!!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee

@weddingdiva-in-training:Sorry you guys didn’t get anything.  Obvi I wouldn’t demand/expect anything as a host but as a guest, I wouldn’t show up completely emptyhanded to something like this.  WOMP.

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