- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
Fiance and I live in Massachusetts but are from Texas. My mom’s extended family lives in NY, FI’s extended family lives in Boston. My aunt in Texas is throwing us an engagement in party in Texas in June, my other aunt wants to have one for us in New York and his aunts want to have us one here in Boston.I’ve never even been to an engagement party and I’m not sure what to expect from one, much less three very different ones.
Should I politely decline some of them? If not, should I help them? It seems like FI’s aunts are looking for some direction from us (a date) but I’m not sure how to approach that without being awkward.
The new york aunt wants to invite some people that are definitely not invited to the wedding (her husband’s parents???) What should I tell her?