Engagement predicament

posted 1 year ago in Engagement
Post # 61
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I think some waiting Bees latch on to Mr Bee’s plan to have some kind of control over their futures, to DO something they feel is productive towards either getting a proposal or at minimum improving their own lives. These Bees don’t feel comfortable talking about proposals with their SO, which boggles my mind because if you’re intimate then you’re allowing him inside your body but won’t discuss this ‘sensative’ topic? Kinda silly.

You don’t seem to want to do either Mr Bee’s plan or discussing it.  It’s like you think you’re Tinker Bell, just flitting around, making nice, hoping he catches you.  

None of the Bees responding have told you to follow that plan. You think it’s silly, we think it’s silly (because you should be doing some of those things anyway as a strong independent woman not to just catch a husband) so why do you keep bringing it up?

Dont marry someone you can’t even talk to about EVERY topic- because he’s either not the man for you or you’re not mature enough to get married.

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