(Closed) Engagement Ring and Memories

posted 8 years ago in Encore
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Do you like the cut?

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hmmm… this is a tough one. He probably bought it for you thinking it was your style if he knew what you had before, but you don’t want to think about your ex every time you look at it. While it might be the same cut, do you think you can get a different setting. Sometimes the setting can give the ring a whole new feel. That was you can bring it up to him and explain it to him, but tell him you still want to keep the original diamond.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

OMG, that is amazing that he picked the same cut you had before without knowing. I know it’ll be a tough thing to bring up, but it’s probably best to discuss now instead of looking at it for years to come and thinking of your past.

Post # 9
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5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Good luck, I’m sure as difficult as it may be he’ll understand.

Post # 10
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Busy bee

You really do need to let him know. I had a second marriage like 15 years ago that lasted just a couple of years. The jewelry he gave me was part of our problems, but I didn’t realize I needed to communicate about it to get what I really wanted/needed. I’m sure your Fiance would not want you looking at your hand and thinking of ex and feeling bad. Hugs.

 

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