(Closed) Engagement shoots… Awkward? Did you enjoy them? Would you do it again?

posted 6 years ago in Photos/Videos
  • poll: Engagement shoot?
    Didn't/won't do one : (12 votes)
    11 %
    We did one. It was fine. They came out great! : (42 votes)
    39 %
    We did, and they didn't come out too great : (1 votes)
    1 %
    We did one, and it was awkward, but they came out well! : (16 votes)
    15 %
    We did one, it was awkward, photos are kind of awkward, but we're still glad we did it : (10 votes)
    9 %
    We will be doing one, but haven't yet : (22 votes)
    20 %
    We didn't do one, but wish we did : (3 votes)
    3 %
    We did one... and ended up switching photographers! Good to do a test run. : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    862 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I haven’t gotten my photos back so I didn’t vote, but I’m predicting they’ll be AWESOME because we just had a blast with our photographer. I think it’s really important to pick the right photographer, one who’s funny and will put you at ease. we started off awkward and shy but really opened up soon after and just had fun being ‘us’.

    Post # 4
    846 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    our pictures turned out amazing, i wouldn’t have changed anything. our photographer is really religious so i was a little worried at first, but it ended up being so fun! you need to just relax and be yourselves, don’t over-think it. and don’t forget to smile.. i think the pictures that look the most fake and posed are ones where the couple is acting too serious.

    Post # 6
    280 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m going to keep my eye on this thread because I am almost dreading engagement pics, but I do want them.  The few times that I’ve been in front of the camera, I have always been awkward and can’t stop thinking how I look or if the photog is getting my best angle, etc.  SO is even worse – aside from senior pictures in high school eight years ago, he’s never been photographed by a professional photographer!

    However, I think it’s important for us to practice before our wedding day so we can work out the kinks and get somewhat familiar with the process.  We are having an intimate Destination Wedding so our wedding day photog will not be the same as the photog who does our e-pics, but still… we definitely need the practice.

    Post # 8
    523 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013 - Callanwolde Fine Arts Center

    We had a ton of fun with our photographer doing our E-photos. It didn’t really feel that awkward, but Fiance was taking full advantage of kissing me. When we saw the preview pictures, I realized that 90% of the time I had no idea where the photographer was during the actual shooting of pictures. My Fiance and I were just having a great time walking around the River Walk when there were minimal people down there.

    Plus, after getting some of the pictures back, I realized that when my Fiance is standing behind me, I do this weird position with my head/neck that gives me some great double-chin action. Hopefully now that I know what I do, I can make a conscious effort to not do it.

    Post # 9
    4370 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Darling Husband and I usually don’t do big PDA – what helped for us is we were in a more private location (my backyard) and our photographer would both tell us how to pose, but then also just let us be natural. It was very relaxed, and I love our e-pics.

    About the time of year – we got engaged in December and we waited a long time to do our e-pics. We did them in PA (where my parents live) in late May when we went there for my bridal shower. We had a September wedding, too, and it worked out fine, so remember – you don’t have to do them right away!

    Post # 10
    8041 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    @yanamari:  Haven’t done them, and don’t plan to.. but my SO did for his first marriage. He said he found them incredibly awkward. He hates having his photo taken in general (like even when we’re on holiday!).

    If you’re fairly at ease with having photos taken, it probably won’t be that bad. You could also tell your photog to tone down the cheesy shots.

    I do think it’s wise to test the photog out with these, though.

    Post # 11
    1116 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We did epics and I am glad we did!  It helped us get to know our photog and ultimately it was fun.  We were worried it would be awkward too b/c we aren’t really PDA people but the locations we chose weren’t “busy” and honestly since it’s not our personalities to be all lovey dovey, ooh ahh, our pics don’t reflect that.  They reflect US.  We did some in softball gear b/c that’s how we met.  I think that if you tailor your shoot to fit you and your Fiance you will be happy with the results.  We got them done in October in MD. 



    Post # 12
    1718 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We had a free e-pic session with a amateur photographer who wanted to turn pro.  The session was completely awkward and we only had 3 decent photos from a whole hour of photos.  i.e. the photog took photos from the bottom up which made both of us look chubby; there were photos that were obviously missing; and, she wasn’t quick enough to capture candid shots.  However, I learned that what we wanted and don’t want from our photographer which was good.  I also think it is a good way to test your photographer’s skills.

    Post # 13
    3624 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We didn’t do formal ones. We just went to Central Park with my friend and she took pictures of us. We mainly wanted a picture to put on our STD, and we ended up with a lot of nice pictures! It wasn’t awkward because we were just with our friend.

    Post # 14
    307 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Ours came included in our package and the photographer stated that she likes to do that so that she can get to know the couple a little b4 their big day. We had a good time and our pics came out awesome so it helped to reinforce that we made a good choice

    Post # 15
    1770 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    We didn’t do them. They seemed like a waste of money because we didn’t want a picture on our Save-The-Date Cards and we wouldn’t display pictures of just us in our house (besides wedding pics of course). 

    Post # 16
    2023 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Our pics turned out well.  It was awkward.  I wish we wouldve planned more poses though… because we have a ton of the same side-by-side poses… they all look the same- just different clothes!!!

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