(Closed) Envious Over a Good Friend's Engagement

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Not me, but happened to me with my best friend. 

We still talk but I was never the same since I’m engaged and when I found out I felt so sad.. Please try to be nice and be there for her if you consider yourself her friend, cuz she might like to share this “special moment” for her with you…  :c

 

Post # 5
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

it’s gonna hurt. i see it happen and i just try to remember things happen for  a reason and you have to trust in that. things happen in there own time. all that matters is that you try to be there for your friend and still love your SO without comparing. Zen it out!

Post # 6
Member
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

You’ll be there in no time, just be patient. Your time will come too, if it’s after her or before her it wouldn’t change the fact that she’s your friend and your SO loves you; and I know it might be hard for you but like fingers crossed said “try to zen it out” good luck! 🙂

Post # 7
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32 posts
Newbee

@TaraWaits:  I used to feel that way too.  I guess because you are ready it’s just really hard even though you are over the moon for your friends.  It’s going to happen for you, so try to focus on that.  Take some time to comfort yourself and let the news sink in and that will make you feel so much better.  Good luck waiting, I was with my Fiance 6 years and 3 months before he proposed!

Post # 8
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272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

i know exactly how you feel, my best friend got engaged about 6 months ago, i was horrible!  i didnt say anything directly but i sure wasnt supportive.. all i can say is dont be like me as hard as it is, we worked through it but it took awhile to mend..

Post # 9
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699 posts
Busy bee

@TaraWaits:  my good, younger friend and again, she and her beau were together for less time than us, got engaged and then married  last year, near the end she got a i was a bridesmaid and near the end she got a little snarky but it was all good in the end. planning a wedding is tough. but i’d learn from her and see how she does

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