- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
I’m a bit late but allow me to explain my story.
my first child was seven years ago. A 8lb 13.9 oz baby. I had the epidural but it only worked for half my body so I received a second dose. I felt nothing for 12 hours after and the pushing lasted 5 hours because I couldn’t feel anything.
my second child 8lb4oz is nearly 1 now. I wanted all natural but everyone talked me out of it. I still wanted to but when the pain increased to draw a couple tears (I was given pitocin as well) everyone convinced me to get the epidural.
it lasted 30 minutes. The pain came back and my water hadn’t even broke. I got a second dose. It did nothing. The water broke and my contractions were long hard and close together. They had me squeezing the chair and groaning a lot with a few tears. Within 20 minutes it was time to push. I felt everything. Pushing made things better. It took three pushed and less than 5 minutes and she was here. The pain was gone and I was a bit sore but all the horrible pains quickly faded and in hind sight the pain honestly wasn’t that bad.
I really regretted the epidurals after since they did nothing to help. The pitocin I regret the most because my baby was born not breathing, gray, and the chord double wrapped around her neck and knotted. The doctor said it was unusually bad case. My baby, thank God, was safe and healthy and happy once they freed up the chord but she was grayish for about 38 hours after she was born.
the induction and the epidural were not necessary. In my first the epi was. It was a hard labor. But I gave up too easily for my second.
point of this: Trust yourself to know what is right. Dont do anything you dont feel comfortable doing. And don’t get induced unless you have to.
My mom had my sister and I naturally, and then with my brother she decided to get an epidural. Well, something went wrong and it only numbed one side of her body, which was worse than no numbing. So they gave her more to try and do the other side, and it numbed her up to her neck and sent her into respiratory distress, so they started pumping even more drugs into her to try and keep her breathing. About this time they told her it was time to push!
When it was time for the next baby she stayed far, far away from the epidurals!
I really feel like the typical US birth scenario goes like this all-too-often: Unecessary induction to start off with, which leads to intense pain, which leads to epidural, which leads to numbness and inability to push and finally a C-section. Ultimately all that matters is the end game – a healthy baby. But there’s no way to ensure a “pain-free” birth. You can have less pain during birth with an epidural, but your chances of surgery or tearing increases, which will make recovery longer and more painful.
You can totally do this. Our bodies were made for it.
I had a natural birth with my first baby and I will attempt it again later this month for baby #2.
I understand and think it is awesome!
I would agree to avoid being induced if you want a drug-free birth. That pitocin is no joke!! Plus they will require you to be constantly monitored and if they don’t like something they will force you to lie in bed (that was like torture lol). I was induced because I was after 41w but I wish I would have held out another 3 days or so just to see if it would have happened on my own.
Tell the haters to shut it!
FWIW, I got an epidural when I was 1.5 cm and had a very quick, uncomplicated and painless labor/delivery. I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way either. Do what’s right for you.
<br />Actually, you are medically incorrect and have clearly never researched the various opiod medicines used in an epidural, what the mechanism of action of an epidural is, what are the potential side effects of the various combinations because different anaestitists choose different combinations of meds and how they function to effect both the maternal and fetal body. I have because 1) I am a geek like that and 2) I have spina bifida occulta so if I ever needed an emergency C-Section – I wanted to prepared to discuss an appropriate option with my treatment team.
But, being the science geek that I am – I like to back my references up with fact. Here is a link to a reputable medical journal that is peer reviewed and vetted by the physician community – it is not something some random person said on the internet.<br />http://www.aafp.org/afp/2013/0601/p760.html
To quote, in case it cannot be accessed –
“Evidence indicates that epidural analgesia prolongs the second stage of labor and increases the frequency of instrumental deliveries.3 Oxytocin augmentation of labor with epidural analgesia might then improve outcomes. But, does evidence support this assumption?” In case you are wondering, no augementing with synthetic oxytocin (pitocin) does not decrease C-Section rates – unfortunately.
“Evidence indicates that epidural analgesia prolongs the second stage of labor and increases the frequency of instrumental deliveries.” That was the key statement in case you missed it. Instrumental deliveries means, long pushing stages because the baby isn’t moving – usually because the mom was improperly dosed and she can’t feel to push properly. Episostomies happen more frequently with instrument deliveries and injuries to babies. Neither of those are good – ohhhh and… it TAKES LONGER! But that is just a statistical average. Referring me to a case study of one does not imply a statistical “average”. That is flawed science.
Here’s the thing – I don’t care what a person does with their babies or their uterus. Someone wants an epidural. Fine. Get it by all means. I was just answering the OP’s question, stating my own bit of anecdotal evidence – oh, but I can actually back that up with STATS – unmedicated births ARE faster on average. To create an average, take the total number and divide by the whole then do the same thing with whatever you are comparing and then – results. Cool how that works.
Epidurals, no problem with them. They can be extremely helpful. I do have a problem with people being uninformed and stating incorrect information as fact. Cause, well it just isn’t helpful to anyone.
Birth is a big deal no matter how it is achieved. I do not invalidate the process based on a standard I have established for myself. I will however provide factual information when asked.
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