(Closed) Epitome of a thoughtless, rude, ungrateful bride

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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1765 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow, who keeps track of stuff like that? She should be happy she recieved gifts at all if this is how she normally treats people..

Post # 18
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11267 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

wow, that is the rudest thing i’ve ever heard a bride say.  she is disgusting and deserves nothing with an attitude like that.

i would be so offended.

Post # 19
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2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I was my sister’s Maid/Matron of Honor and in charge of counting her cash and writing out gifts. Yet, I have no idea how much she got. I dont remember at all.

I’m guessing she was counting the money before it came. If she counted on gifts to pay the tab of the wedding or honeymoon, that probably freaked her out when she got lower than what she expected. What a dumba##.

Post # 20
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3580 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@greenmint:  The only reason I am not siding with this is because she not only kept discussing it over the honeymoon and then felt the need to make a scene about it at a party.  I would have to assume you did not do the same.  Methinks a major brat/maturity issue is to blame, not the economy.

Post # 21
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3696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow, that poor girl.  She is in for a wakeup call when life really gets difficult. 

We were overwhelmed by the generosity of our family and friends.  Every $20 gift put a smile on our faces to know that they wanted to give it to us. 

Post # 22
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5117 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh, she sounds like a peach. I don’t know how you didn’t flip on her. Her poor husband, I bet that’s all he heard about on the Honeymoon. Blechk. I think it’s quite obvious to everyone but her why she received what she did. 

Post # 23
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2808 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow. I’d be half-tempted to call the bank and cancel my check, had I written her one, if I heard an outburst like that. What a self-entitled little brat.

Post # 24
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3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Wow, I’m cringing just reading that. That’s absolutely absurd. Even if you are self centered enough to THINK that silently, any modicum of common sense would tell you to never speak that thought out loud. 

Post # 25
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284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Wow.  I knew roughly what my sister received, but not because she bragged or anything.  She knew that I was a bit stressed with wedding finances and she pointed out that, while we couldn’t count on it, we might see about $x from gifts and, if it made me feel better, to realize that we could put that in our savings (which we raided for wedding stuff).  But, I don’t think she ever said “person x gave this.”  Aside from a few very large checks, I don’t remember who gave us what.  I wrote thank you notes as things came in so that I didn’t have to keep a master “who gave us what” list.  I didn’t want to feel like I was keeping score.

Post # 26
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

Oh my gosh!! I have no words…whoa.

Post # 27
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Buzzing bee

Did she ever consider maybe she got less money than her sister because perhaps her sister’s husband’s family contributed more than her own husband’s family did?  It wasn’t JUST your family doing the gift giving at either wedding!  Ridiculous.

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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@abbie017:  Agreed!

My sister got married 4 years ago and I have no clue how much she got in gifts. I would never ask something like that!

Post # 29
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Oh boy–your cousin is behaving like a greedy little piggie! I wouldn’t know what to say to her if I were in your shoes–no words! Sealed

Post # 30
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3625 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Woh. Surprised

I’m glad I have no siblings.

And that FI’s family is cash-strapped so he and his sibling won’t get much either way.

Post # 31
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

That is truly awful! It sounds like a giant, inappropriate temper tantrum. Does she think all of the guests got together and conspired to make her total lower?

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