(Closed) Equal gifts for unequal help?

posted 7 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Unless I were getting them personalized items eg different necklaces picked for their individual taste, I would get them all the same gift.

You can thank them individually for their contribution.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would give them the same thing on the day, then do something special one-on-one if you want to express extra thanks to someone else. It might not e fair to make that one bridesmaid feel singled out in a negative way.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Maybe for their next birthday you can be extra sweet to the ones who were very helpful. I’d definitely get them all the same though. Not doing so could lead to some messiness.

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