- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I have 4 people in my wedding party, and 3 out of 4 have been super duper helpful. 4th hasn’t been intentionally not helpful, or not ignoring support or anything. Really, just the other people have been active in helping and going out of their way, and I haven’t found anything for her to do. So it’s definitely not anything like, she’s not helping what a lame person. It’s mostly there’s nothing for me to ask her to do so she’s not doing anything. which is fine.
So, I want to get everyone equivalent of same gifts. Is it okay to get everyone the same thing when the 3 have put in so much extra effort for help? I guess I just don’t want anyone else to feel not as appreciated. But I guess my thank you cards can reflect my appreciation.
Anywho…does anyone have any thoughts?