(Closed) erotic dreams??? (omg)

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
5958 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Not a single thing wrong with any of it!  No guilt required!  Dreams are never a literal representation if ourselves or desires, more like a sideways glacé through a fun house mirror at them.  And as far as the vivid sensation, well, based on your own hormone levels, sleep cycle and good old fashioned luck, well, I’d count it as a bonus!

Dreams are your mind’s playtime, don’t judge yourself over it.

Post # 4
853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If it makes you feel any better, I had a dream about a student once. He’s such a sweetheart – respectful in every way – and I felt like such a creepy, innapropriate, unworthy pervert for like a week. Then I talked with my friend, a science teacher, who told me about the science of dreams, and how they’re just random nerves in your brain firing off (or something much more technical-sounding) and you have pretty much no control over it. Don’t stress – the feeling will go away.

But I still shudder when I remember that dream…

Post # 5
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Omg I had a similar thing happen last night! I rarely ever have sex dreams, but last night’s was AMAZING haha. I woke up feeling so incredibly guilty though!  The guy in it was random but I felt terrible!  I’ve had dreams with exes/people we know and also felt guilty.  However, I guess you can’t control what you dream about! It’s not like I actually WANT to sleep with them in real life!  Don’t worry about it – just enjoy the dreams!! 😉  

Post # 6
1470 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Stace126:  I’m jealous! I haven’t had a vivid erotic dream in months now! I think if you’re not having a burning desire to actually be with smoeone else then you have nothing to worry about.

Post # 7
384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Don’t worry about it! Like hisprettygirl said, dreams are your mind’s playtime and don’t always relate to our actual desires. I once had 4 rather inappropriate steamy dreams of SO’s brother within a wekk which I thoroughly enjoyed in dreamland. He’s a real a-hole in real life and I would SOO never want that to actually happen. Ever. Felt rather guilty for a week. Honestly though, it’s very normal and perfectly all right. Just enjoy them 😉

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