(Closed) Erotic Dreams… Without DH?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

My erotic dreams star men other than my husband 99% of the time. ASkars has been in more than a few. LOL.

No, it doesn’t freak me out. Sometimes I’ll tell my husband about it. Sometimes he’ll tell me. Neither of us cares at all. It’s totally harmless. I enjoy the dream while I’m having it but then that split second when I wake up and feel like I should confess to cheating, only to realize there’s nothing to confess to, is the greatest deterrent to cheating EVER. Also, in my dreams, 99% of the time I am married and cheating. So at least he’s there in spirit?

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

 I had one last night and was so embarrassed that I could not look my husband in the face this morning! I rarely have erotic dreams but since getting pregnant I’ve had several and only one involved my husband.

i have not told my husband about these dreams! if it was a fictional character then maybe but mine tend to be real life people

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I have them about people other than Darling Husband every now and then and it doesn’t bother me…probably pretty normal.

I actually kind of like it! I can sorta get a little piece of action on the side with no consequences 😉 Jon Snow if you please…

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I have these dreams. I don’t feel bad about them. Sometimes I tell Fiance but I don’t really feel like I have to.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

@MrsCarnival:  Jon Snow, YES PLEASE. *fans self*

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

We all have those dreams. Mine are usually with Antonio Banderas, Richard Gere, or George Clooney (I’m a sucker for the older crowd). I would even suspect that men have them more often than we do with even more women in their dreams!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@daybyday:  I freaking love Game of Thrones. That whole show is just one big ladyboner for me lol. Kit Harrington is lucky I’m a married woman otherwise I’d be tracking him down!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I have them occasionally.  Sometimes they star my husband, sometimes they don’t.  The ones with Darling Husband are actually the most frustrating, because it seems like when I have them, we are trying to have sexy time and keep getting interrupted somehow, (like once, people kept coming and knocking on our bedroom door and come in the room).

I’ve had dreams starring real guys, (hello, coworker that I had never really thought about that way, at least not conciously), and ficticious characters, (dreamt about Batman more than once!  LMAO!  Surprisingly, the newest movie did not restart those dreams), and completely imaginary made-up-by-my-brain people.  

I usually don’t tell Darling Husband unless he was in the starring role, OR if they were just really out there, like the Batman one.  Oddly, I don’t have a thing for Chrisian Bale, it’s just Batman.  I also love Captain America, but no fun dreams with him in them that I can recall.  How disappointing.  

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

@MrsCarnival:  Not trying to GOT threadjack but at the end of the first season my husband was watching me watch Robb Stark and I asked him, “What?” And he said, “You’re, like, flirting with the TV right now.”

LOLOLOLOLLL.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Nah, it doesnt freak my out. I tell my man. I don’t know if I’ve ever had a sex dream about someone we actually know. That I would keep to myself!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@daybyday:  Bwaaahaha nice 🙂 I openly tell Darling Husband that Kit Harrington is my TV-boyfriend. I don’t think he minds.

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