(Closed) Etiquette: How to handle friends who are not invited.

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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4824 posts
Honey bee

Unless you know they expect an invite or they say something to you, there is no need to let them know they are not invited.

Some people like to hear about weddings just because.

Next time they ask, feel free to answer them but make sure you throw in that it is a small wedding. It will be a nice way to hint they shouldnt expect an invite

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would wait until they bring it up again and then just tell them what you wrote.  You’re having a small, intimate wedding and were only able to invite X number of guests.  I always fall back on the, “Due to limited space and seating, we only have room for immediate family and close friends.”  You would sure hope someone would know whether or not they qualify as a “close friend” and someone who simply keeps in touch over social networking sites wouldn’t seem to qualify.

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