(Closed) etiquette police needed

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I would do a shower early (in november) or do a gift table at the reception  . I would not do a shower after you get back.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

agreed! Do your shower now.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I would do the shower sooner than later.  I think a shower after the fact is kind of strange, and if you have a hometown reception after your wedding, I’d think many people would bring gifts there.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If you don’t want a shower don’t have one. I think a gift table at the summer reception would be perfectly fine. Don’t let anyone pressure you into being uncomfortable for your wedding. 🙂

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it would be weird to have one after, then it’s as if you just didn’t get enough gifts at the wedding and had an after the fact shower.  I think it won’t be that bad if you have your Fiance with you!

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