(Closed) Etiquette Question

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I don’t think you can really uninvite him at this point without there being some drama. If he had any courtesy whatsoever, though, he wouldn’t attend the party after having backed out of being a Groomsmen.

Post # 4
3575 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Why did he back out?  Was there a disagreement of sorts?  At any rate, since he’s already received his invite, I would just suck it up and let him go.  Maybe he won’t go now that he’s backed out?! 

Post # 5
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

If he was important enough to be in the wedding, I’m sure he would be missed if we wasn’t at the engagement party.  I say let him attend.  Maybe he can do a reading or usher?

Good luck!!

Post # 6
202 posts
Helper bee

The “etiquette” of only bridal party and close family is not a hard rule.  We held ours during a weekend where a lot of people come in town so it was great to have friends who we don’t get to see that often stop by and say congrats.  Since e-party guests are not required (or “supposed to”) bring a gift its ok to invite more.

Post # 8
2530 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yeah I would keep him invited Im sure hell enjoy it and its just 1 extra person!

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