(Closed) Etiquette question?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
415 posts
Helper bee

You should cash it right away but not spend the money until after the wedding.  You should also send a thank you card ASAP.

Post # 3
5258 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

kl1987:  Deposit it now and send the thank you now! 

Post # 4
698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Agreed! It gives you the perfect opportunity to mention how you will be able to enjoy their generous gift on your honeymoon!

Post # 5
331 posts
Helper bee

I agree with PPs. Deposit it and send a thank you now 🙂

Post # 6
45642 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Rather than tell them that you will enjoy it on your honeymoon, I would tell them that you will put it towards purchasing something for your home. Not everyone feels that wedding gifts should be used to finance the honeymoon.

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