(Closed) Etiquette question about thank you's

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

bridal shower gets own thank you note/card. wedding gift gets their own thank you card… start sending bridal shower cards thank yous as soon as you get the gift…….

Post # 3
46978 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think two separate notes are more thoughtful.

Do the shower thank you notes immediately so they are sent before the wedding.

Thank you notes for gifts received before the wedding can also be sent at the  time the gift is received. It can be reassuring for guests to know that their gift arrived safely.

Even if you decide not to mail them before the wedding, writing your thank you notes as the gifts arrive will lessen the demands on you after the wedding.

Post # 4
6527 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

truefrommetoyou:  two thank you cards, one for the bridal shower and one for the wedding. 

Post # 5
794 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I agree with PPs; write a thank you for both gifts, but be sure to get the shower thank you notes out before the wedding!

Post # 6
1612 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

truefrommetoyou:  I would send 2 seperate cards.

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