(Closed) Ever dated a cop?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
265 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I was in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, and after he graduated from college around year 4 of our relationship he became a police officer. 

My ex SO never cheated on me, but he is a very upstanding guy and became a police officer because he genuinely cares about people and wants to make a difference. There are others who become police officers because they relish in the power they receive because of it. 

HOWEVER, there were a few officers he worked with that WERE cheating on their wives and girlfriends and it was common knowledge among the officers at the department. AND it must be said that these particular officers were seen as not very good cops among the others. He told me it would be VERY easy for an officer around here to cheat if he wanted to because there are what they refer to as “BADGE BUNNIES” or girls who basically throw themselves at police officers. A good chunk of the officers here ARE young and good looking and the department has a reputation for that… being “cowboys” as they say.

In fact he told me about one girl who lives at my apartment complex who calls the police all the time and when they arrive she is standing in lingerie at the door. 

The job puts them in constant contact with others so they have plenty of opportunity to meet new people, but just like anyone else — if they have good character and morals then they won’t cheat. Cheating was really the last thing I was worried about as far as the job is concerned… I was more worried about him being hurt or killed on the job. 

Post # 4
223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am marrying a cop. When my dad first found out I was dating him he told me to run for the hills (my dad is a retired cop). Let’s put it this way: there are good cops, who take their job very serisouly, don’t take advantage of the badge they carry, and are typically very faithful to their wives and partners..then there are the ones who are the total opposite and it’s not very hard to spot them. The majority of the guys on my FI’s shift are great guys, but there are the handful of them that are just slimeballs. One is even a School Resource Officer (SRO) and NOT ALLOWED to be near a certain high school because everyone knows he will try to pick up the high school girls(He is not young either). It’s disgusting. The guys that my fiance hangs out with are all really awesome guys, BUT you do have to have a certain personality to be a police officer…you see a LOT of crap on the road and you hace to be extremely thick-skinned, so I think that’s why sometimes you get these guys in there that act like they are God’s gift to mankind, because it’s almost a facade.

At one precinct in particular around here, they are kind of known as the “cheating precinct”. There is actually a cop sleeping with another cop’s WIFE. 

Many are good, but you should be able to spot the bad.. I think a lot of issues stem from these guys who meet their wives before they are police officers and then the wife starts complaining every day about the hours he has to work and both become miserable, and then there you have it. That plus, they have women throwing themselves at them every day because they just find the uniform hot. It’s pathetic, but it happens. But, it’s a joke around here and the good cops don’t fall for it.

Post # 5
7437 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

The saying goes “Police men beat and firemen cheat”. This is obviously not true in MANY many cases, but there are definitely those who do these things. You just have to make sure the one you’re with is a good guy 🙂

Post # 6
1966 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My sister is married to a cop. He’s awesome. Treats her like a queen, not a shady bone in his body. Of course some cops are cheaters but it’s not because they’re cops it’s because they’re idiots. That goes with all professions. 

Post # 7
8471 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I went on a few dates with two cops…two married cops that is. (Hey I was in my early 20s without a care in the world.)

Post # 8
6 posts

Cop should be sexy. I have always dreamed of marrying a cop. I guest there are good ones and also bad ones. Aren’t there?

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