(Closed) Ever feel like you can’t talk to anyone? (NWR)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I‘m so sorry to hear about your grandma :(( 

Your feelings on the subject are the same as mine, I grew up with that mentality from my mother always saying that there are people out there “worse off than us” so it always felt selfish and wrong to complain.   I learned to count my blessings but at times I just wonder if it’s all even natural (healthy?) to feel this way because regardless of what happens there will still always be that one person in the world (at least) that is worst off so are we just never allowed to feel the way we do?

It’s tough ((hugs)) 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I am so, so sorry about your Grandmother *HUGS*

I get like this sometimes because I’m an optimist. People always assume that you’re always happy! So when you need to talk to someone or are having troubles people either dont listen or dismiss it as not important. It’s hard. You just have to remember that you have every right to be sad and have people listen to you. I always think that, yeah there might be people worse off than me but this is really affecting/ upsetting me right now and I have every right to feel this way.

I’m sorry that you’re going through a bad time and I hope that everything else sorts itself out in the end. *hugs* hang in there.

x

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I’m sorry about your grandmother ๐Ÿ™

I can sort of relate. I process things differently then some people so it’s difficult for me to relate. I’ve been told i’m insensitive, but I just have a different view.  Because of this, it’s hard for me to open up to real people when something emotional is bothering me. That’s probably why I like the boards so much, it’s easier to put something out in internet land.

Post # 8
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483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@CharlotteMJ: Feel free to talk if you feel you need to, we’ll be here to listen and support as much as you feel comfortable.  ๐Ÿ™‚  

Just wanted you to know that. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

So sorry about your grandmother. I know how you feel, which is why i go to the bee a lot of the times for an issue. I always feel like I’m burdening people, especially Fiance. I haven’t found a cure for that issue, so if anyone has lemme know!

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am sorry about your grandma – ((((HUGS))))

That is what the Hive is hear for, when you think you can’t go anywhere else there is always the Bee.  We are here to lean on when you need it.  We have all been there.  Should you ever need an ear to bend, you are welcome to PM me.  Sometimes we just need someone to vent to.

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