(Closed) Ever have one of those days…..

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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302 posts
Helper bee

All I have to say is, YES. I HAVE had those days/weeks/months. I had a really rough week a week or so ago, and Boyfriend or Best Friend definitely noticed.  If only they would realize all of this suffering would go away if they would just ASK for gosh darn sakes!

Post # 4
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I have been like that a lot lately! Last Monday on the way home from work in the car I screamed and screamed and screamed about how upset I am and how I feel like shit waiting. Other drivers were looking at me like an idiot but I didn’ care because it helped me!

I really hope you feel better soon, but if the screaming doesn’t help then here is a virtual glass of wine and a **hugg**

Post # 5
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548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yes, I definitely had those days. And it sucked! I was terrible at trying to “forget about it” or “distract myself”–I couldn’t get my mind off it. The only thing that ever helped me was going to the gym, and that was only temporary; when I was done running or whatever, it was right back on my mind.

I had a horrible waiting period and I felt like I was psycho most of the time. Thankfully, since we’ve been engaged, I have returned to normal and life has been much more enjoyable for both of us! So there is light at the end of the tunnel. Just hang in there and vent here when you need to. 🙂

Post # 6
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610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I def. had those days. There were times I literally didn’t want to speak to him he was making me so mad. I don’t think guys get how waiting really makes a girl feel. There was actually one time I moved all of my stuff to the spare room, or slept on the air mattress because he was making me so mad.

Hang in there! It will come! Just remember why you’re with him, and don’t dwell too much on what an idiot he is for not doing it already! lol

Post # 7
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302 posts
Helper bee

@HoyaLawya2010: It’s nice to know that “normal-me” will return once this horrible waiting is over!!

Post # 8
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548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Lol, yes, you will. I am so relieved and so is Fiance, haha! Sometimes I think back on those times and it’s like I was possessed or something. It’s the shaggy defense lol–“it wasn’t me” it was just my crazy evil twin in waiting!

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