(Closed) Ever vent on here or talk about something personal…

posted 8 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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2208 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

That actually sort of happened to me. Weird situation. Worked it out, but felt very weird.

Post # 5
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1336 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I have been, and I haven’t mentioned it to too many people for the same reason.  Which is why I also didn’t put a pic of myself. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

i dont, because nothing i say here, i wouldnt say to their face. i might regret teh WAY i said it in the heat of the moment, but its all still a feeling i have at the time…

i wouldnt worry about it though girlie, people are gonna do what they do…. just be true to yourself, even when you are mad, and people will get over it if they want to and if not, forget about em! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

My Maid/Matron of Honor found me on here (although I’m not really cryptic, so it wasn’t hard!).  I never post anything that I wouldn’t say out loud so I don’t worry about it.  HOWEVER I will say that my mom found my wedding website before we told her we were getting married…that was a sticky situation.  Who knew she would learn to Google my name at THAT moment??

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Orange County Performing Arts Center

As a bee, that’s hard since I post about everything wedding related. I know what you’re feeling because there are times I want to post about stuff, but also want it to be a surprise at the wedding. Oh well. πŸ™‚ Some of my friends that are brides have found me, but I got over it. I love Weddingbee and I’d rather let everyone see my ideas and have the chance to blog than not at all. I agree with MightySapphire regarding venting though. I don’t post anything I wouldn’t say out loud. That’s a good policy. πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

i have no worries of what i say or what people would find on here for my wedding ideas. im a very outspoken person, if i’ve said it on here, i’d say it to someones face, like the fact that one of my bridesmaids is being a sucky flaky friend, i told her i was sick and tired of her bitching out on all our plans and that my biggest fear was that she’d not show up to the wedding! well over the phone, but still, it was said straight to her. Then again I don’t fear offending people, because if your my friend, you already know exactly how i am. and on here if i offend someone, its not a huge deal because things do not translate so easily onto the internet! like as opposed to in person. i don’t think i’ve ever said anything that is outright mean, which is why i can say the last statement.

Post # 10
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Worker bee

I haven’t posted anything personal here since I’m new, but — I guess I wouldn’t be concerned, simply because people out of my group of friends are not really getting married right now.  My family isn’t online much so I can’t see them finding anything either.

Post # 11
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283 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I worry about this.  I’ve vented about my sister before, and I know she’s planning a wedding too, so she could stumble upon the bee anytime.  That said, I’ve written things that weren’t nice, but never anything that was untrue or unfair.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I started a post venting about Future Brother-In-Law and his gf a month or so ago and feel SO INCREDIBLE BAD about it.  I would die if anyone ever saw it and regret putting it out there 1000%.  I would pay Mr. Bee to remove it, it literally keeps me up at night.  It’s not so much friends finding it, but Fiance or anyone in his family.  It makes me feel like I betrayed them.  I have no problem putting my own personal details in a public domain, but I hate that I voiced someone else’s private affairs especially since some people don’t know a few of the “details” I mentioned=(

I have a big mouth and lack impulse-control.

Post # 13
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1045 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2008

@twalila,

I’m sure Mr.Bee would remove it for you, if you told him what post it is.

Post # 14
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1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m totally of the “If you wouldn’t say it to your grandmother, then don’t say it” pursuasion. Keeps my mouth in check a lot. Otherwise, it’s often smart not to put rants in writing when you first come up on them. Let it sit a bit before posting if you ever have anything like that. It’ll give you time to think on it first before making any mistakes.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper

Momma always told me “Hit save not send.” -Forrest Gump

Ok, maybe he didn’t say that, but it’s still pretty good advice!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I don’t worry about it really. Maybe my vents aren’t things I would necessarily say to someone’s face, but they are always honest. If someone happened to stumble upon something and call me out then I would just be like oh – sorry you had to see that on the internet, doesn’t change the fact that you [fill in whatever said person did/said here].

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