Everyone Canceled on Bachelorette Weekend

posted 2 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper

Can you go with your FI/husband? If youre going to lose all the money you may as well still enjoy it. Youre technically married right, just do a mini moon.

Post # 3
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Busy bee

Wow! That really sucks. I’m sorry, Bee.

Where is this bachelorette weekend taking place? Maybe some Bees can make an appearance!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

jellybellynelly :  Good suggestion

whoami :  Question. Since no one in your wedding party even attempted to plan this for you did it seem like they weren’t all that enthused about this event from the start? Plus a whole weekend…I wouldn’t have agreed and then canceled but one night is enough.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

Seriously I would cancel it and take Fiance with you on a relaxing weekend trip. I wouldn’t be doing anything for them again either, and I would let them all know. That’s just awful, sorry OP!

Post # 6
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Newbee

That does suck… I would be angry if it happened to me. I couldn’t afford something like that or even a ceremony though so I can’t imagine. I don’t have friends to celebrate with either. My SO is all I have.

I think bringing your fiance is a good idea. No other friends or family you could bring? Male or female. 

 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

That sounds super disappointing. 🙁 Is there any way to reframe the weekend into something more fun for yourself? I hope there’s a positive resolution to this for you. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019 - Chateau Lake Louise

whoami :  That is just awful. Do people know how much money & effort you put out? Some of those reasons seem legit, but wafflers might make more of an effort to make it if they know?

I’d be 100% down for a lake cabin bachelorette! 

Agree the pps though; take Fiance and bag those brats 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019 - Chateau Lake Louise

whoami :  Mert. Boo. I’m sorry Bee. This just blows front to back. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

whoami :  That really sucks. I’m sorry you’re out money and effort spent putting this together for a bunch of ungrateful people. Yuck. They would definitely hear about my feelings. I hope you can figure out some way to salvage the situation. 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I am so sorry! This is really terrible. (One of the reasons I chose not to have a bachelorette actually). I don’t have any great advice but wanted to tell you how sorry I am!

Post # 14
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Helper bee

Is it possible to sell the package? Advertise it, put it on Facebook, etc. 

This sucks though. I would just go with the animals or ask a friend to look after the animals for you so you and your partner can go!

Post # 15
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Helper bee

You said one girl can still go? I would still go with her?? 

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