(Closed) Everyone has an E-Ring Agenda… sorry, long.

posted 7 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I don’t actually see a question in this post. What are you asking — keep the original ring, have him get your grandmother’s ring, other? You haven’t really even commented on what direction you want to move in, so I don’t know how we’re supposed to help. I would try talking to your Fiance about options or just get over it, at least for now. People and their agendas only become problems when you let them, really. Especially considering he spent months agonizing over this (and that your proposal had some drama anyway from your other posts), maybe it would be best if you let this go for now. I don’t love love my e-ring, either, and now over a year after we got engaged, my Fiance has said that he totally wants to upgrade for a 5 year anniversary type situation. No big deal. It is just a piece of jewelry, not the embodiment of our love. I wear it and I love him and it’s an outward symbol that lets people know I’m engaged. That’s about it.

Post # 4
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think you should see your grandmother’s ring before you choose it. It would suck if you didn’t like that one either. :S

Post # 5
1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think you should give it time.  He spent a lot of time choosing it and it’s probably hurting him more than he lets on that he got a style you don’t prefer.  I would wear it for a little bit and see if it grew on me since you’ve only had it a few days.

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