(Closed) everyone has an opinion when we should have kids????

posted 8 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

EVERYONE will always have an opinion or your life. I think 25 is a good age to have kids! I think as long as its a good time for both of you (which is seems to be) have them whenever you would like and who cares what anyone else thinks! I had a child before marriage and not even with my Fiance so beleive me… EVERYONE gave me their opinion on that. But you just gotta let it roll off!

Post # 4
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803 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

i have gottten SOOOO tired of people asking me that, that ive started to lie just to prove how rude them  are!  if someone random asks (bridal store lady, someone in the grocery store who notices my ring, etc) i’ll respond with, “oh, we arent able to ahve kids.” that shuts them up so fast, its hilarious to see them squirm.  its so mean, i know.

Post # 5
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458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It’s your marriage. Don’t let people tell you you are too young for anything! Have children when you are emotionally and fiscally prepared! If that is in a year or two, do it!

My mother was married at 20 and had me at 21…I don’t think I’ll be ready for kids for awhile, but I think 25 is a good age!

Best of luck!

Post # 7
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458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I understand! The bee helps me vent and feel better, too 🙂

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

people have so many opinions on kids…this is just the beginning…first it’s “when are you having kids”  then how to act during pregnancy, then what sort of birth you should want, then how to raise them…I would just try to shut down the conversations as much as possible, instead of arguing back, as it really is your life.  You don’t have to convince them!

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