(Closed) Everything little thing he does is(n't) magic…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I know that when one thing starts to get to me, it starts a snowball effect where I start noticing every little thing. The more annoyed I get, the more I notice; the more I notice, the more annoyed I get. It goes on in a vicious cycle until eventually I’m yelling about something completely stupid, and it doesn’t even matter, it’s just the straw that broke the camel’s back.

I always try to take some time for myself when I find that I’m getting fed up with everything. Sometimes it’s so refreshing to just get a little bit of time, and things don’t feel so built-up anymore. I also try to talk about it calmly before it reaches the breaking point.

Post # 18
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926 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Lol oh yes, that’s relationships isn’t it! Yea my hubs doesn’t do much around the house & his habits drive me NUTS sometimes…but when I’m feeling frustrated I just try to remember the bigger picture.

Post # 19
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@littleacorn:  Yeah, I’m not perfect either. Which makes it easier to put up with his quirks, since he’s so patient with mine.

 

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