- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
I know that when one thing starts to get to me, it starts a snowball effect where I start noticing every little thing. The more annoyed I get, the more I notice; the more I notice, the more annoyed I get. It goes on in a vicious cycle until eventually I’m yelling about something completely stupid, and it doesn’t even matter, it’s just the straw that broke the camel’s back.
I always try to take some time for myself when I find that I’m getting fed up with everything. Sometimes it’s so refreshing to just get a little bit of time, and things don’t feel so built-up anymore. I also try to talk about it calmly before it reaches the breaking point.