Everything perfect aside from the sex… due to marry next year

posted 3 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2020

Do you guys spend all your free time together? Sometimes you can have too much of a good thing. I would make sure you are having girls night, he’s having boys night. Plan small weekend trips together or with friends. Get your hair done different. Wax the lady bits if that’s what you’re into. Just find ways to 1. Get out of your every day routine sometimes and 2. Make sure you have a nurtured self away from the relationship. 

I lose interest in sex at that 1 to 2 year mark as well. Having trips or events to look forward to and spending time apart helps break the monotony and routine. Mostly though- don’t put too much pressure on yourselves. Maybe you just go to bed naked one night. Every intimate encounter doesn’t need to lead to or necessarily involve sex or penetration. Look for other ways to increase INTIMACY. Maybe join him in the shower once a month. Little changes that will lead to a bigger change overall. 

Post # 17
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277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

No one has perfect sex, all the time. 

Those who say they do are lying, since it’s normal for sex to ebb and flow.

Post # 18
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313 posts
Helper bee

We have sex habitually on most Saturday and Sunday (days off work) mornings. Maybe boring for some but it works for us. Occasionally weekdays if we’re horny or on vacation. Been together 8 years. 

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