(Closed) Everything was going so well, when…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

What is it that you’d talk to her about? Unfortunately she’s already made her decision. I’m sure she knows you’re upset about it but she can’t move his gradutation. Sorry for the sucky situation.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

What time is your wedding and what time is the graduation?  Usually graduations are in the morning around here.  Is it possible to do both?  What is there to talk about?  How she won’t be in it?  Or just confirm with her so no assumptions are made?

Post # 5
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would just tell her how sad you are she’ll miss it and keep including her in things. The timing on that really sucks :(.

Post # 7
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4771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Don’t want to be a downer, but usually graduations are about the party and/ or dinner afterwards and not the ceremony itself so I doubt she could do both.  I guess she has to choose.  I’d choose my bff, but I’m not close w/ my bro.  What’s odd is that her bro didn’t know the date of graduation until so late.

Post # 8
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would choose my BFF too, I dont think a grad is as big a deal as a wedding. Its up to her though. I would tell her if she misses the ceremony she is welcome to the reception though (I wouldnt want to miss out on having her there completely).

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