(Closed) Everything went wrong

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Wow.

I’m so, so sorry.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

((hugs)) to you!!! That is a lot to deal with, and I’m sorry you’ve had to go through it!  Maybe when you get home you can have a weekend staycation and a massage to ease some of that tension.  Try and think of three things that went RIGHT and everytime you think about something bad, remember the good things.  Hopefully that will help put a positive spin on the experience.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

awww omg I am so sorry!! This is the kind of stuff that happens in my nightmares, I feel so bad that you actually had this all happen to you! but on the bright side, you are married to the man you love and in the end that is what it was all about so try not to let it get you down. You have an entire life of special moments and memories to make up for it..one day you will laugh…probably not any time soon..but one day.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Wow, I feel for you! That stinks 🙁 

I think you two need to treat yourself to a day of relaxation when you get home with a day at the spa with couples massages is in order! 

Plus why don’t you plan something sweet related to the wedding, like make a nice dinner, drink wine, and read each other your guests cards. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Hugs! So sorry that all happened. 🙁 I would also be devastated. Maybe one day you can look back and laugh but right now I know that’s the last thing you want to do. I hope the rest of your trip picks up and is awesome!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

hugs to you

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Ohmygod I am so sorry all of this happened. All I can say is that you have your husband, he has his wife, and you have many many lovely years ahead of you to make up for whatever didn’t go as planned at the wedding.

I hope that in five, oh, who are we kidding, maybe ten years you can laugh at your wedding day.

May those wedding blunders be the worst you have to deal with in your marriage!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Oh.my.gosh! So sorry that you had so many issues on your wedding day. I hope that you are able to enjoy the rest your honeymoon.hugs

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Oh dear, how dreadful!  First off, I am so sorry that so many things went wrong, its terrible that all of those things had to converge around your special day….the sunburn is just adding insult to injury and the lost wedding band gives it this horrible frosting on the misery cake…is there a spa nearby?  I would recommend a soothing seaweed wrap and beachside facial STAT!  Followed by romantic champagne dinner, you and your husband order for each other, it’s fun to see what someone else picks for you..and a walk on the beach.  Head to the local market, see what kind of wedding rings they’ve got there, it might be neat to have a momento of the honeymoon on his hand for the rest of your lives together…you can’t fix what went wrong, and for that I’m truly sorry, but the fat lady isn’t singing on your honeymoon yet!   

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Awww, honey!! I am so sorry you got smacked by vendors and mother nature both. You are absolutely entitled to some full-on pampering and TLC. It’s just not fair when things go wrong that you have no control over. We’re here for you, I hope your honeymoon improves from here on out!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Happy7:  Oh, wow…I’m so sorry so many things went wrong!  Try to enjoy the rest of your honeymoon.  *hugs*

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Wow I’m sorry!!  That is the stuff of nightmares.  Hopefully 20 years from now you two will be able to laugh at some of the stuff that went wrong (obviously besides the death).  Maybe find a bed and breakfast when you get home and you two can enjoy a nice weekend together!

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

well, no weddings are perfect.  you did have a lot to overcome. 

put some green gel on your sunburn and try to enjoy the rest of your honeymoon. 

bottom line:  you married the love of your life.  you are now husband and wife.  that is the main objective for the wedding.  everything else is fluff.

Post # 16
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9145 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

That sucks.  I promise they will all be funny a few anniversaries from now.

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