Evil Stepmother

posted 3 months ago in Family
Post # 2
Member
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

The stepmom won’t be around forever. Just keep reaching out to your sister. Keep sending her gifts. Keep being a good sister. Invite her to the wedding, ignore your stepmom if she starts shit. In fact, I’d set up someone to wrangle your stepmom. Like your Maid/Matron of Honor or Best Man or someone who knows how she is.

Post # 3
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12 posts
Newbee

Skivies91 :  I think you should keep reaching out to your sister. Invite her to your wedding but let her know that the step-mom is not invited. Your wedding is about you and your SO and if you’re worried that she will cause drama, she shouldn’t be there. From the title of the post, ‘evil stepmother,’ it doesn’t sound like you want her there either. If your sister decides to come to your wedding, that’s her choice. But, make it clear that the step-mom is not invited.

Post # 4
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948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

Definatly keep reaching out. One day you may be the only one your sister has. Hopefully one day your sister will come to see how your step monster is and cut ties with her. But she is still 17 and not an adult yet so she time will only tell. Send her the invite, but chances are she will problary not see it because it will get intercepted if you chose to not have step monster go. If you decide to invite her have someone closly watch her while she is around you and if she says something rude have that person kindly interupt with something to have her move on. It sucks you may have to do it. But at least your sister will be there to help you celebrate.

Post # 5
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66 posts
Worker bee

Invite your step sister. One day the step mom wont be around anymore. And anyways your step sister is her own person and should have a relationship with you if she wants to, if she decides not to come to the wedding then thats her own choice but I think you should extend an invite and keep the relationship open. 

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